November 1st
I've always wanted to do those "thankful" posts for the month of November but somehow I never remember until half way through November and then it's like...crap! I missed it again. Well, check me out!
#1
I am thankful that it isn't Halloween.
Because this is my first time I will even actually throw in a bonus "I am thankful" ...I am thankful that Halloween candy holds no allure to me. Seriously. I am "thankful" for Bryn (Wow! We are onto 3 now. Maybe I should pace myself?) for causing me such horrendous morning sickness that it truly has no appeal.
I am almost giddy with anticipation to remove all of the Halloween decorations and pack up all of the Halloween stuff but alas I have just returned from the world's most painful flu shot so that might be on hold as my arm has been rendered useless. (Luckily my fingers still work to type. :) Why don't they provide the nasal spray for adults?
Here we go...oh yeah...I still haven't ordered that camera battery so enjoy my iphoney pictures.
Halloween 2012
(We had a Blue Butterfly, a Woodland Fairy, a Kitty Cat, and a creepy Death Rider.)
Okay back to Halloween which has really stretched on for far too long...too many parties...too many days of kids donning a costume. In case you missed it on Facebook... Bryn had an absolutely marvelous time at her Preschool party. This is the first year she has really gotten super excited. Because her preschool is in the high school they got to trick or treat to some of the classrooms. Her teacher said that the teachers fight over whose classroom they get to go to. She had a ball.
She also got to wear this get up again to ballet yesterday where they could come in costume. Most of the newbie ballet parents didn't know about this so only Bryn and one other girl who has an older sister in ballet came all glammed up and in costume. They loved it and the other little girls cried. Oops. Luckily Tyler came after they were all settled down to watch Bryn at ballet because I had to head on over to the elementary school to help with Ailey's classroom party.
Here's my philosophy about volunteering now that I am on child #3. I volunteer to help with parties (NEVER as room mother...only as party mom) and field trips. If you only knew how many years I would volunteer during the day and would end up stuck in the workroom cutting, stapling, copying, dye cutting like a chump and would barely see my kid at all. (I know those are noble tasks that do need to get done. I like to save those for the 1st time parents...I've done my time.) Anyway with parties and field trips you are the hero!! FYI-- toilet paper mummy station in the worst. Too messy and much too hyper of an activity. My personal favorite? Pumpkin Bowling. So now you know.
| Ailey's cute class |
I asked Ailey which one actually was her best friend and in typical Ailey fashion she just giggled and said "They all are!!"
Now here's a little situation that I was not anticipating. I purposefully did not volunteer to be a party mom in Kameron's class this year. I was informed by Reilly when she was in 6th grade that that was "humiliating". Okay. So I thought I would still be semi-there for Kameron's last Halloween in elementary school by being in Ailey's room and watching his class come through for the Halloween Parade (my favorite thing) and that wouldn't be too humiliating. So Kam's class comes through...he high fives me...and I think "Good job Kristin."
But then after school this little conversation occurred:
Me: Hey Kamers!! How was your party?
Kam: Fine. (said very blah-ly)
Me: Did you have fun?
Kam: I guess. (no enthusiasm whatsoever)
Me: What were your treats?
Kam: Krispy Kreme Donuts. (said like it was dirt he had to eat)
Me: Why so glum?
Kam: yelling...I'M NOT GLUM.
Me: What's your deal? Didn't you have fun?
Kam: I guess.
Me: Did people like your costume?
Kam: Yeah.
Me: So what's wrong?
Kam: NOTHING'S WRONG!!
As I am trying to figure out what the heck is his problem a very random thought occurs to me.
Me: Are you sad that I didn't come help out in your class today?
Kam: Maybe.
Me: I thought you wouldn't want me in there.
Kam: Well I do.
Me: Ok. Would it make you feel better if I volunteer in there for Valentines Day?
Kam: Maybe...I guess so.
I give up!! What is humiliating to one kid is not humiliating to another one. After talking to Tyler...who was also baffled...he said he that he was totally humiliated by his mom coming to his class in 6th grade. I, for the record, never was. (I love you, Mom!!)
Then it seemed like we were just barely home and it was time to get ready for Trunk-or-Treat at the Church. Reilly did the little girls make-up and they looked beautiful.
| Bryn's wings "may" have been supposed to go another direction but she was determined that they were to go this way. |
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| You might be surprised to know that Tyler "handcrafted" those antennae himself!! |
| Reilly called herself "Sexy Kitty" but I just call her "Kitty. |
Tyler ran the kids around while I doled out the candy. Reilly helped me briefly.
Then she ditched us to hang out with these guys...we didn't see her again until 10pm.
Once Trunk-or-Treat was over we took the three kids trick-or-treating. By the end of the night their pumpkin buckets were FULL. "My bucket's too heavy!! I have too much candy!!" said no child ever...unless you are Bryn.
We headed home, pranked Reilly, put pizzas in the oven, ransacked everyone's candy for the dog chow...Banana Laffy Taffy, Bit-o-Honey, Dum Dums...I'm talking to you...to put in our big bowl to hand out to our neighborhood kids. Rude? No...they just got full-sized candy bars next door and diabetic boy paid good money for the Costco sized bags of candy HE likes...so dog chow it was for the locals. (Church kids and particular friends got the good stuff!!)
The night was fun but exhausting and now I couldn't be more THANKFUL that it is November.
Happy Halloween!!









