Friday, January 25, 2019

52 Week Challenge: Question 16

What foods do you like? What foods do you dislike? Do you have any food or medical allergies?

I haven't done one of these 52 week challenges in forever! It's time for another one.



As far as food goes...I would say that I am an adventurous eater. There is nothing that I won't try once. I grew up eating out at diverse restaurants a lot and at a young age I loved things like sushi and escargot. They are still two of my very favorite foods. My brother Kirk and I are probably the most adventurous eaters in our extended family. We are looking forward to our trip to San Francisco and we are already planning what we will eat. Kirk has a list of all kinds of weird dishes and places for us to hit. Can't wait.

Tyler grew up eating a fairly conservative diet. Very meat and potatoes. Very Utah Mormon food. (Yes, that is a thing.) When we started dating he didn't eat seafood or sushi or even mustard. (What?!) But he has since developed a much more sophisticated palate and there isn't anything he won't try. Now he is often the one pushing me to try weird foods. I love it!

Out of our four kids...Kameron is our most adventurous eater with Bryn right behind him. When we were in Portland they wanted to eat jelly fish and rabbit and all kinds of things that were on the "wild side" of the menu at the Chinese restaurant that we went to. That fills me with great joy! Ailey is our least experimental eater. She likes about four things and that is it. She is the pickiest of picky eaters. Reilly is fairly picky too. For Reilly it is no seafood, no sushi, no mushrooms, no onions. Good grief. Tyler and I never cater to our picky eaters. Reilly is a bit easier because she will just work around her dislikes. She will eat cucumber rolls and things like that when we go out for sushi... which is a lot... and she just quietly deals with her dislikes but Ailey throws a huge fit. Trying to get that kid to eat as a toddler was one of my greatest tests of patience as a parent!! It still is. Sometimes when we go out for dinner she just orders white rice or buttered noodles. Seriously. Where did this kid come from?!

It is hard to say what my favorite foods are because I like so many things! I would say that sushi, seafood, Thai food, Japanese food, and Korean food are at the top of my list!!



There are however certain foods that I dislike:

1.) Fast Food

I cannot think of one fast food place that I like or can even order something from. Gross.

2.) Mayonnaise

This is hated across the board by me and my siblings. Too many school lunch bologna sandwiches with clear mayonnaise. There were no lunch box ice packs back in our day. It's amazing that we didn't all get salmonella.

3.) Milk

Also universally despised by all of the McClellan kids. One day on St. Patrick's Day our mom turned our milk green with food coloring to be festive. The milk must have been going south before that since I *hear* that food coloring won't sour milk (allegedly) but that was all it took. Some green sour milk and now none of us can drink it. *Shivers*

4.) Pears

I hate the gritty texture of pears. My mom also used to make a very disgusting side dish for our dinners back in the 80s which was half a pear, a blob of mayo on top of it, and sprinkled with cheddar cheese. This was beloved by none of us. My Grandma Ellersick used to take a wedge of iceberg lettuce and put a blob of mayo on top of that and call it *salad*. Also not beloved by the McClellan kids... I feel sick just typing that.

5.) Raisins

I used to like them as a kid. I have memories of being little and eating them out of the little red boxes and enjoying them. Perhaps I enjoyed them too much? Now I cannot eat even one. So gross. Do NOT even THINK about putting those in a cookie at our house!!

6.) Apple Sauce

Same reason as Pears. Gritty texture. I like apples...just not in a sauce or in a pie. Because apple pie is just basically applesauce pie.

7.) Melon

I hate all melon. Every.single.one. But cantaloupe is literally the worst food known to man.

8.) Cucumbers

Nope. Disgusting. This is literally the only thing that I have to pick out of food. I can get down most things that I am served but cucumbers are a NO. Although I do like tzakiki sauce a lot. I make it quite often but I always very very finely shred the cucumbers.

9.) Pizza

This is the greatest sorrow of my children's lives. I think we have had the pizza delivery guy come maybe 5 times in their entire lives. Believe me...they let me know how sad this is for them all.the.time. Whenever I go out of town it is pizza for days at our house.

10.) Marinara Sauce

See above. It makes me not enjoy other things like lasagna and certain pastas and of course pizza.

When I think back to the meals that my mom made growing up...

My very favorite meal was my mom's finger steaks dipped in homemade ranch dressing (add bottled ranch dressing to my list of inedible foods) with homemade mashed potatoes (no potato buds...gross). This was only made on special occasions...like birthdays... and was one of my Grandma Ellersick's better recipes. I still request that Tyler make this for me on my birthday and I wash it all down with my Grandma's green punch too. Delicious!!

Other meals that my mom made that I loved growing up:

Tacos
Taco Salad
Enchilada Casserole (Tyler requests this every year as his birthday dinner.)
Meatloaf
Homemade Clam Chowder (My mom's recipe is the best!)
Fried Rice (My Aunt Margaret's recipe)
Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup (My Grandma Ellersick's recipe)
Stroganoff
Pot Roast
Chili
Steak Soup

If I came home and saw that we were having any of the above for dinner I was STOKED!

BUT... if I came home and saw that we were having any of the foods listed below... I would invite myself over to a friend's house for dinner.

My Mom's worst meals:

1.) Salmon Loaf

This is BY FAR the most loathed meal in my house growing up. Liked by NO ONE but my mother. This gem was also a recipe from my Grandma Ellersick and it is straight up the most disgusting thing you will ever eat.

Let me paint you a picture... you open up a can of...yes CAN of pink salmon. It looks like cat food. You mix it with things like celery and crushed up saltines. You mush it into a loaf pan and bake it. Then you slice it and cover it in the most vile sauce of made of milk and boiled eggs. You might as well just vomit now. It is HORRID!!

Right behind Salmon Loaf was....

2.) Liver and Onions

Enough said!

Tyler's favorite meals growing up were:

1.) His Mom's Roast Chicken Sunday Dinner (or Pot Roast)

This was what they had almost every Sunday after church: Roast chicken or beef with potatoes and veggies and homemade rolls and Crystal Light to drink. Tyler still loves himself some Crystal Light! He drinks it every day at work.

2.) Canned Fruit and Peanut Butter Toast

This is a meal that he speaks of with such joy and love. Just ask our kids!! LOL. Whenever it was a busy night and his mom didn't have time to cook dinner; (His dad never cooked...can you imagine???) she would have everyone in the family go into their food storage and pick out whatever homemade jar of canned fruit they wanted to eat...no sharing with anyone else...everyone got their own jar. (Tyler always picked cherries or pears.) This was then accompanied by peanut butter toast. He mentions this meal all.the.time. I told him to learn to can fruit! I am sure that his mother would be SHOCKED by how fondly her *quick* meal is remembered.

3.) Lasagna

Tyler makes this for himself because ...see above...I don't like marinara sauce. I will make him a delicious butternut squash lasagna with a basil cream sauce which he likes but sometimes he just wants his mom's lasagna made with cottage cheese. :)

 4.) Lefse

This was a Norwegian flat bread made from potatoes that Tyler's family would make at Christmas time. It is delicious. Not all lefse is alike. Tyler makes a darn good lefse!

5.) Ground Beef Stuffed Crescent Rolls

Ground beef, Lipton Onion Soup Mix, and cheddar cheese were all combined and baked inside a crescent roll. Tyler's eyes still light up at the mention of this!

6.) Friday Night Pizza and Pop

On Friday nights when Tyler was a kid... his family had the tradition of going to Sounds Easy Pizza in Orem, UT every Friday night and getting a bunch of pizzas and then heading over to the Gas N' Go to fill up their refillable giant mugs with pop. He married the WRONG person. Poor guy.

Foods that Tyler hates:

1.) Oysters

2.) Sardines

3.) Salmon

4.) Liver

5.) Pigs Feet (He had to eat these on his mission in North Carolina.)


If you ask my kids...and I did...what their favorite meals are they include:

Broccoli Divan (This is our typical Sunday Dinner)
Pecan Patties with Mashed Potatoes
Street Tacos
Pad Thai
Stroganoff
Hawaiian Haystacks
Salad Bar
Taco Salad
Granny's Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup
Pasta Alfresca
The Dieter's Plate

The Dieter's Plate was a creation out of desperation one night and totally helps satiate Tyler's cravings for his canned fruit and peanut butter toast. One night we had literally no groceries and no time to go to the store. I rummaged in the fridge and pulled out random items. A little bit of leftover cottage cheese, some olives, carrot sticks, crackers, canned fruit (not homemade), a couple of boiled eggs, some pickles, and some cheese that I sliced. I made everyone plates with cottage cheese in the middle and all of the other stuff radiating out from it. I called it the dieter's plate because it looked just like the meals my Grandma McKinnon used to order at restaurants in the 80s because she was always on a diet. MY FAMILY LOVED IT!! They ask for it all the time!! Ha ha!

As far as food allergies go...we don't have any life threatening ones. Thank goodness. Tyler is allergic to pistachios which is terrible because he loves them and Reilly is allergic to kiwi.

I could do multiple posts on food and family. Maybe I will. It is a much more interesting topic (to me) than some of the other topics on this challenge!! :)

Friday, January 18, 2019

2018 :Year in Review

2018 Year in Review

Best of Nine
2018 was a MUCH BETTER year than 2017 which sucked the old wazoo and for that I am EXTREMELY grateful!! We had more happy times, better health, and more travel. So much was better...but not without challenges...we still had many of those. All in all, I will call 2018 a good year!

Here are our highlights and lowlights for 2018:

-The year started off with me being called as Primary President. I had no idea how I was going to feel about this calling but so far so good. In fact, dare I say it?  I really enjoy it.

-Ailey loved being a drill team captain on her middle school drill team and she did such a great job choreographing dances and working with the girls.

-The prophet and president of our church passed away. President Monson was a wonderful man and a great inspiration to me.

-Reilly lived in Cheney, WA for most of the year and made plans to attend Eastern WA University to study Nursing. She changed her mind and moved to the valley and became an office manager for a coffee distribution company and decided that business was more her passion.

-Perimenopause started to really kick in for me. Not a fan!!

-Tyler turned 47 which we were THRILLED about!!

-Ailey registered for high school. That is always so surreal. Even with kid #3.

-Ailey was an honors student and had her picture up on the wall at her middle school.

-Bryn participated in the Science Fair and earned two ribbons!

-Kameron traveled a ton with his various band and jazz band competitions.

-I got hair extensions. Stress took an immense toll on me in 2017 and as a result I lost a ton of hair. Scary amounts. Getting hair extensions was the best thing and the most expensive thing that I have ever done. I am glad I did it. Although I would never recommend them to any one who just wanted longer hair. They are a high maintenance pain but a pain that I am willing to bear and I am grateful for them!

-Stacey, Kelley, and I flew to Las Vegas to reconnect with our father. It had been 17 years since we last saw him. It was a very good trip and extremely meaningful and healing. I am glad that we made the effort to go. Our relationships with him have grown by leaps and bounds. It has been a blessing in our lives.

-I was also able to visit with my BFF from college, Tiffany, while in Las Vegas and that was a pure joy! It was one of the highlights of my year! Can't wait to do it again.

-Tyler and I were able to sneak away for a romantic getaway in February. It was wonderful!!

-Reilly started dating Hunter and they have been serious ever since.

-Tyler did the Ancestry DNA test and we found out that...SHOCKER...he is Norwegian. LOL.

-Stacey and I were vendors together at the Rebel Junk Vintage Market in Coeur d'Alene, ID.

-Ailey participated in her first Road Show.

-Tyler and I took a trip to the Oregon Coast. It was fabulous until I got lost and almost died on the beach. Remember that? Ha ha!!

-Bryn turned 9!!

-Bryn ran track for the first time this year and KILLED it!!

-Ailey tried out for the high school dance team and MADE IT!! We were so excited and happy for her!!

-President Russell M. Nelson became our new prophet and President of the Church. I love him SO MUCH!! His presidency has been an exciting roller coaster ride of amazing changes!! I loved President Monson dearly but President Nelson has definitely breathed new life and vitality into the church. It is so exciting to be a part of it all!!

-Tyler was released as the secretary of the High Priests Quorum as it doesn't really exist any more and promptly got called to be a primary teacher by yours truly! He is a great primary teacher!!

-We became a hammocking family. We LOVE our hammocks.

-Kam went on a school trip to Portland and had a great time!

-Tyler and I celebrated 23 years of marriage and were so HAPPY about that!!

-Bryn sang a solo at her school's Spring concert and did an amazing job!

-Ailey marched in the Junior Lilac Parade.

-My mom, Stacey, and I were all vendors at the Farm Chicks show this year. It was fantastic as usual!! I love it.

-Kameron marched in the Lilac Parade.

-I turned 46!!

-Ailey turned 14!!

-Both Ailey and Kameron made honor roll second semester of their 8th grade and 11th grade years!!

-Ailey graduated from middle school.

-My sister Jordin moved here from Kansas City!! We are SO HAPPY to have Jordin, Ramon, and the kids here permanently!!

-Kameron started working a second job. He is a hard worker!!

-Ailey attended youth conference.

-Ailey attended her 3rd year of Girls Camp and... again...LOVED IT!

-Meki and the kids came for a fun two week visit! Kirk and Meki and the kids ended up visiting about 4 times this year which was AWESOME!

-Tyler's sister, Lori, came to visit for nine days and we had the BEST time with her!!

-We did a bunch of hiking, biking, paddleboarding, kayaking, boating and swimming! Loved it.

-The Pacific Northwest burned again and the air quality was the worst that I have EVER seen it.

-We had a fun trip to Silverwood with Lori!

-Kameron started his SENIOR year! Say it ain't so... :(

-Ailey started her FRESHMAN year!

-Bryn started 4th grade and got Ms. T. who Ailey had in 4th grade too! We were happy about that!

-I didn't have to drive to early morning Seminary for the 2nd year in a row! Kam and Ailey go together. Are the angels singing???

-Bryn started her 3rd year of piano.

-One of Kam's best friends got his mission call and left on his mission to New Zealand. Mission prep for Kam has begun and is going full force.

-Stacey and I participated in the Funky Junk Show in Sandpoint, Idaho!

-Paul and Whitney and the girls came for a visit! So fun!

-Bryn ran double XC this year and literally SLAYED it!! I cannot get over what an amazing season she had!! She is awesome!!

-Tyler's mom and step-dad came for a visit and stayed for several days.We had such a GOOD visit with them!

-We found out that Tyler and I are 10th cousins once removed. Yikes. Through my Grandma Miley of all people!! Craziness.

-We loved watching Ailey dance at football half-time shows! She was her team's high flier!!

-Ailey went to her first stake dance and LOVED it!

-Bryn was nominated to be an ASB representative at school.

-My mom and I participated in The Mad Hatter Vintage Flea Market in Spokane. Love that show!

-Kameron  went to Homecoming!!

-Tyler and I got to hear the author Amy Stewart speak and it was fantastic!

-BRYN CAME IN FIRST AT HER XC MEET!! First time ever!!

-Bryn qualified for the XC All-City Finals! She did great!

-Tyler and I redid our bedroom and we absolutely LOVE IT!

-I survived my first Primary Program as the Primary President!

-Kameron got his Senior Pictures taken and they are great!

-We had a memorable luncheon out at the lake for a bunch of our friends in the vintage industry. It was really fun!

-The one year mark since Tyler's brain hemorrhage came and went and we were filled with gratitude for his life and health. I'm not going to lie though. I still have PTSD and anxiety from it all.

-Reilly turned 22!

-We had one of our most difficult years with Reilly and she would agree. Parenting kids in their 20s is no joke. It is hard and there have been a lot of bumps in the road. Too many arguments, power struggles, and tears. It isn't just the letting go part...even though that is hard...it is standing by and watching from the sidelines as she made decisions that we knew would have repercussions...good and bad. One friend of mine summed it up well with these words:

"You know how people always say cherish these years they go so fast. Clearly that doesn't apply to watching your kids do their 20s".

I have to 100% agree with that and with another friend who said:

"I think the hideousness that is parenting adult children is the best kept secret about having kids. NO ONE WARNS YOU! Why? Blindsided I tell you. I assumed once you got them through high school you high five, heave a sigh of relief, and launch them out the door into the great big world to do magical incredible things and bring honor to your family. #wrong"

I love that!!  It has been a rough road this year but progress has been made and we still love each other and hang out together so I count that as a win.

**Here is one of my favorite quotes from my Grandma Ellersick. It is a gem and gave me some perspective years ago when I was complaining about how hard it was to parent teenagers. She said "Kristin, you should try parenting a 65 year old!! Now THAT is ROUGH!!"**

-Kameron turned 18!

-Kam registered for the draft.

-Kameron participated in many fantastic concerts and events!

-Kameron was asked to participate in the 2018 Festival of the Arts. It was quite an honor. So cool!

-Our family spent Thanksgiving in Portland with Paul and Whitney and had such a GREAT TIME!!

-We decided that we want to get a dog. The *when* in still up in the air. Tyler and I need to let this decision sit for a bit. The girls want to get one when Kameron leaves for his mission and name the dog Elder Johnson. They think we won't miss the *other* Elder Johnson so much. Ha ha! We will see. Of course, Kam votes for getting the dog before he leaves!

-I saw some cousins that I hadn't seen in about a year and a half and it was so nice.

-I participated in Pickin Christmas Vintage Market in Post Falls, Idaho for the 2nd year and I loved it!

-Some decisions were made about Sisters Creed that will have big changes for the business in 2019.

-Ailey's drill team qualified for STATE!

-We participated in Light the World for the 3rd year. I love it so much!

-My mom turned 70 and planned a trip to San Francisco with her 5 kids.

-Kameron has a new girlfriend although he doesn't like us calling her that even though she is. We humor him by calling Abby his "lady friend" instead. Ha ha! He tolerates it.

-Reilly moved into her own apartment.

-Some of my favorite new changes about Church were made...no more sharing time...AND...best of all...TWO HOUR CHURCH!! Yep, those angels are DEFINITELY singing!!

-Tyler's sister, Lori, decided to move to Utah and we are SUPER happy about it!

-I've lost 35 lbs and feel so much better. I have another 5 lbs to go to reach my goal weight. It is crazy how sometimes when you do something good for yourself that it becomes a trigger for someone else in a negative way. I don't think I've felt more of a backlash than I have by eating clean, losing weight, being active, healing my gut (I hate that phrase) but it is so true and it needed healing... and generally making some positive changes. People are weird that way. They act like your decision to live your life in a certain way is a direct INSULT to how they are living theirs...and they become really negative, defensive, and argumentative. (You can swap religion/politics for healthy eating and the results are also the same) Triggers are interesting. We need to pay more attention to them.

-I found out that a family member is going through some very hard things right now and it hurts my heart.

-We had a MUCH NEEDED and long put off family discussion with my extended family. So glad that happened.

-Tyler's boss FINALLY retired and Tyler is THRILLED! He has a new boss that he thinks is great and it has been a welcome change in his department!

-This year we were PLAGUED by dental issues at the end of the year... by we I mean Kam... and it seems to be carrying on into 2019. Delightful.

-We rang in 2019 with people we love!


I read 41 books in 2018. Here are my top five favorites:

1.) To All the Boys I've Loved Before by Jenny Han

2.) Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

3.) A Discovery of Witches by Deborah Harkness

4.) The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern

5.) Girl, Wash Your Face by Rachel Hollis


The Worst Book of 2018:

The Identicals by Elin Hilderbrand

I absolutely despised this book and don't know how Elin Hilderbrand is a best-selling author with a huge devoted following.

Book Stats (Because I love these!)

Fiction: 27
Nonfiction: 14
Classics: 8
Book Club: 9 (The other 3 for the year I had already read.)

Goals Review:

It's one of my favorite times of the year for my little upholder self. Thanks Gretchen Rubin and The Four Tendencies for helping me to understand my eccentricities better and to embrace them! If you still haven't read that book you REALLY need to. In 2018 I set 202 goals for myself that included family goals, couple goals, and business goals. I should probably clarify that some were big goals, some were medium-sized goals, and some were little baby step goals.  I accomplished 136 out of 202. I accomplished 67% of the goals that I set in 2018 and I feel great about that! Progress is being made on most of the others...slow but steady...and some I will need to focus on hard core in 2019. But progress is progress!!

Health was a big goal for 2018 probably not a surprise after our 2017. That was one of our most productive areas. Another one was travel. I went on three trips in 2018 and that was awesome. My goal going forward is for Tyler and I to travel quarterly. I accomplished most of the things that I wanted to with my business for 2018 and I am moving forward on other business goals already. Another area that I felt was quite productive had to do with family relationships. I am very happy about that! Goals that Tyler and I set concerning our kids was another area that we worked really hard on ... intentional parenting, one-on-one time with our kids, working through some issues with Reilly, making the gospel a bigger part of each day: with personal and family prayer, personal and family scripture study, ministering, FHE. Things like that were a big priority in our family this last year. I felt like we had improved and grown by leaps and bounds in that area. It was funny in talking with the kids though; they requested even more dedication and felt there was still room for improvement. That was a wonderful surprise. Marriage goals was also an area that Tyler and I were successful in. I am happy that the areas that we had the most success in were the areas that mattered the most. Some of the more frivolous things fell by the wayside and that is okay because they can be rolled over into goals for 2019. I've been rolling over some goals for the past 10 years. To everything there is a season, right?

It is a really HUGE blessing to come to the end of a year and to be able to think, "That was a good year. Not a perfect year...but a good year." I am grateful for that! We have had our ups and downs this year. We have had our struggles. We have had times of joy and times of sorrow. We have cheered and laughed and we have worried and cried. We have yelled and screamed and been angry with one another. We have had some successes and some failures. We have had great happiness and great disappointments. All in all, 2018 was a most welcome and good year and it was not taken for granted that it was!

Tuesday, January 15, 2019

December: Things I am Loving

December: Things I am Loving

1.) Flowers in December


During the hustle and bustle and stress of December I really appreciated these flowers. When Tyler came home with them I was like, "Why are you spending money on flowers right now?! We have so many gifts to buy!" and he replied with, "Because I love you and I wanted you to have them." I think those flowers were my favorite gift that I received in December simply because they were given to me out of love and appreciation during the busiest and most stressful season. Those flowers meant the world to me and every time I saw them they made me smile.

2.) Mrs. Meyers Peppermint Cleaning Spray

Mrs. Meyers Peppermint Cleaning Spray added to my whole Christmas experience. I LOVE the smell of peppermint; especially around the holidays. I love peppermint candles and peppermint Scentsy melts. Spritzing this delicious smelling spray on my counter tops and tables was delightful AND even better...my kids liked to clean with it. Win-win!!

3.) Sweet's Orange Sticks



Sweet's Orange Sticks are the quintessential candy of Christmas for me. They remind me of my Grandma and Grandpa McKinnon. They always gave us these sticks with our Christmas presents every year. You never knew if you were going to get a box of the raspberry sticks (not a fan) or the orange sticks (big fan). Sweet's is a Utah company and these orange sticks are not always easy to find here in Spokane. The Trader Joe's variety is delicious and works in a pinch. But I specifically like these. This was part of my Christmas gift from Kameron and Tyler told me that Kam hunted high and low and went to multiple stores to find these for me. Love that kid! I was so excited to open them on Christmas morning!! I thoroughly enjoyed snacking on them while reading over Christmas Break!!

4.) Walkers Scottish Shortbread


Another favorite December treat! Scottish shortbread is a favorite for this Scottish girl and my whole family.

5.) A Very Special Christmas 


I am a very traditional Christmas music person. We play Bing Crosby, Perry Como, Andy Williams, Mannheim Steamroller, and MOTAB around here with Sting, Annie Lennox, and Alison Moyet thrown into the mix. But look what was resurrected from the 80s this year...A Very Special Christmas circa 1987. This was the very first Christmas compilation that I ever purchased and it was on tape. I loved it and played the heck out of it. Then I got so sick of it that I hadn't played any music from it for over 25 years. Who knew that Christmas in Hollis by Run DMC would be our most played Christmas song of 2018. But it was and that brought this album back to my Christmas playlist. Enjoyable.


Wednesday, January 09, 2019

Christmas and New Years 2018

Christmas and New Years 


Christmas Eve was fantastic!! Tyler only worked a half day and Reilly got off of work early too so Tyler and I were able to go on a little drink run with Reilly and spend some time with her on our own which was fun and seems to get more and more rare these days.


Pictures by Reilly


Our family likes to have a fancy dinner for Christmas Eve. Everyone helped to prepare it and while things were cooking we played this game that Reilly gave to us:

It was funny and disgusting! We also played it on New Years Eve at the lake.

After dinner Ailey and Bryn had planned out an elaborate Christmas Program. They do such a great job even down to the darling handouts.

Front

Middle


Back


Our two emcees for the night!



We sang Christmas carols, Kam played the trumpet, Ailey sang, Bryn played the piano, and Reilly read a few favorite Christmas stories and was the narrator for TRULY the Best Christmas Pageant Ever! We opened pajamas and our ornaments. I love this tradition. It is always exciting to see who will get what ornament.



We paused the program to play our own version of Johnson Tries. This was another gift to the family from Reilly. She bought a whole bunch of weird flavored sodas online for us to try. Hunter came over and joined us for this game!! Also equal parts hilarious and disgusting. The flavors were: Buffalo Wings, Ranch Dressing, Grass, Dirt, Mustard, Sweet Corn, Butter, Peanut Butter and Jelly, Pickle, Bacon, Pumpkin Pie, and Birthday Cake.

Tasting Dirt:





Tasting Grass:



Surprisingly as absolutely disgusting as dirt and grass were...ranch dressing and sweet corn were even WORSE!! We had a vomiter after the ranching dressing and I may never eat corn again after drinking that vile soda.

Then it was Christmas Jammie Time:






We are not a matching jammie family like was such the rage this year. Everyone is very particular about their pajamas and they all like very different kinds so I'm not going to waste money on novelty pajamas that will only get worn once so... a mishmash it is... but everyone was happy and comfortable.


And now for the highlight of the night: THE BEST CHRISTMAS PAGEANT EVER!! We have outdone ourselves with this gem. Bryn's acting, Ailey's table cloth flapping and klutziness including her spectacular wipe out (2:44), and Kam as Joseph. This was one not to be forgotten!!



After the pageant we turned off all of the lights and lit one candle.Tyler read from the scriptures before accompanying the kids to their bedrooms by candle light.


Christmas morning was our latest one yet. 9 am!! That is a record in our 22 years of parenting. I welcome it!





Kameron wins hands down for best gift wrapper:


Kam's gift to Tyler


His gift to me. SPECTACULAR!

We had a great Christmas! Everyone was very pleased with their gifts and Kam's trip to Hawaii with his school is paid for...he had to give up birthday gifts and Christmas gifts and pay for part of it himself but he is super stoked to go in April. Tyler spoiled me with all kinds of really great and thoughtful gifts (the kids too) and he was happy with what he got! So it was great all around!

We had a leisurely morning and delicious breakfast of overnight strawberry cheesecake french toast. It is SO GOOD! Then we all got ready and headed out to the lake to meet up with extended family.


The house looked really pretty and the lake had frozen over. We met up with Stacey and her family, Kelley and her family, and Jordin and her family and their friend Brandon who was visiting from Colorado. Hunter came over too. Kirk and his family were coming up the day after Christmas and staying through New Years. We had a big appetizer and dessert buffet. Everyone provided two savory dishes and one dessert. It was fun and everything was delicious.

So many cooks in the kitchen:


Tyler and Kameron making chicken crescent rolls.


Jordin making prosciutto wrapped asparagus.


Kelley's boyfriend Chris making a delicious shrimp dish. This was my favorite along with my mom's apricot baked brie!!


Mom making her cheese ball.


We opened gifts and the grandkids had a talent show. Kam played the trumpet, Dane played his saxophone, River played the flute, Bryn played the piano, and then Ailey, Kaiya, River, Jaylah, and Bryn did a super cute dance that Ailey choreographed. But I am apparently unable to post it anywhere because of copyright laws due to the music. Annoying.


The Johnsons plus one


Chris, Kelley, and Elle


Hunter and Reilly


My two favorite guys!


Everyone except Kelley, Chris, Elle, Reilly, and Hunter spent the night so we all stayed up late playing games. Ramon finally taught us to play Mexican Train. We were also inadvertently color- coordinated. I am glad everyone got the gray and black memo!! Ha Ha!



Lilac Lodge...the cabin side of the lake house...doesn't have heat or insulation but we had some big heaters going and we were hoping that people could sleep over there but we started them up too late so we all had to squish into the house because Lilac Lodge was FREEZING! It was craziness.


The kids the next morning after sacking out on the floor of the living room.


Kam got the chair. Seniority rules!


The lake was looking gorgeous!!


This guy isn't too bad either!


Dane, Kam, and RJ working on projects down in my grandpa's shop. 



RJ kills me at the very end of this video, "Mom...You ever heard of a smaller twin? Me and Kameron are like that!!" Ha ha! Love that kid!

Kirk and Meki and kids were delayed an extra day due to Meki getting food poisoning while on the road and having to spend an unexpected night in Butte, MT. That is the worst! Eventually she was up for further travel and we were excited to see them.


It was so fun to have Kaiden, Kaiya, and Kirin here too. Kirin did NOT want to pose for any pictures while here.


This is all I got of him. LOL


Jaylah's birthday is right after Christmas so she had a big cousin (and a few friends) ice skating birthday party in Coeur d' Alene.


Kirk and Ty battling it out!


Elle and Bryn


Kaiya and Ailey


They were not fans of me taking pictures of them in their helmets. Teenagers!! Safety first! 


These two didn't care! 

Everyone did a great job skating! They were skating all over the rink by the end of the 3 hours and there were no injuries or terrific wipe outs. Thank goodness!!


The birthday girl!




The kids had a great time and Jayah felt very celebrated!!

**Right before the party I got some tragic news...my BFF from college, Tiffany, had just lost her younger brother Brady to suicide. It wrecked me. Brady was the most darling, handsome, talented, charming, funny, smart, athletic guy. It broke my heart for my dear friend and her family and also Brady's sons. Depression takes such a terrible toll. It has robbed the world of such an amazing person.**


That night Kaiya asked if she could come to church with us the next day and spend the night. Of course! She is not a member of the church but lives in Utah and has always been interested in finding out more about the church. It was the last Sunday of the three hour block and a 5th Sunday so no young womens just a discussion of our ward mission plan. Snooze. Ailey was dying... but Kaiya loved it! (Her words) She asked if she could come again with us the next time she is in town. Yes, you can! You know my joy of having church visitors and filling up our bench. ;)

We headed back out to the lake that afternoon and had a big family dinner. A polar plunge was necessary. Kirk cracked open the ice off of the dock and then Kirk, Kaiden, and Kam all jumped in. They hold the record for being the manly-est and have the bragging rights for being the last out of the lake for the year. They should have jumped in at midnight on New Years Eve and then they could have been the last out and the first in for the new year. LOL. Tyler was super bummed to be out of things like this. He is always game for a polar plunge but with his health issues...nope...not going to happen.


Cutting a hole in the ice at the end of the dock.


Getting ready to plunge





Plunging!!


After... triumphant!

After dinner things took a bit of a turn... my brother Kirk got the ball rolling on a difficult conversation that has needed to happen for a very long time. Our family hasn't been getting along very well for about 2 years now. A bunch of stuff went down when my grandma died that affected our extended family but also affected our family in addition to other family drama and inter-fighting. There has been a lot of pettiness, back-biting, talking behind people's backs, and all around crap. Kirk laid it all out on the table and said that now was the time for everyone to air their grievances and say what they had to say while we were ALL there (all 5 siblings, spouses, and my mom...all kids were sent upstairs) and for everyone to be accountable for what they had done and said and to try to work through things and make them better. He and I have had many discussions about strained relationships with our siblings. It has made both of us dread a trip to San Fran and spending time with family in general. The past two years I have had to set up some pretty strong boundaries with my family for self-preservation. I have been very hurt over the past few years.

The good part was that everyone got to say what they needed to say and talk about their issues with whomever they had them with...some are deep seated from childhood...some are more about feelings of self worth ...and some are valid. It was hard and there were a lot of tears and some shouting and defensiveness but I give everyone credit that no one left...which would have been VERY EASY to do. We all stayed and we all listened and we all apologized when necessary. I am cautiously optimistic. I do think that we all want to get along better and have more authentic relationships and I do know that there is a lot of love there but there is also a lot of work to be done to heal strained relationships. So I hope everyone puts in the effort that requires. It has to be a two way street. There has been a very real loss of trust and I hope that some of that heals in 2019. Either way I know that it was extremely helpful for me and Tyler to say what we had to say and to vocalize it and to have it be heard. I think it was so necessary to have that *discussion* so that we could all move beyond some issues and look forward to our trip to San Francisco.

The next night was New Years Eve. Kirk and his family, Jordin and her family, and me and my family and Hunter all spent it together at the lake. We had a fantastic time!


Kam, Kirk, and Ty are three peas in a pod.

We had another spectacular feast...Kirk made an enormous and delicious prime rib. It truly was a thing of beauty! Reilly was a bit out of sorts because the day before she cut her finger deeply with a very sharp knife from a new set of kitchen knives that she got for Christmas and needed multiple stitches so she was in a lot of pain and not her best self but she rallied later that night and got into the spirit of things!



More games were played while we waited to ring in the New Year:



Many card games were played and we also played multiple rounds of What's that Smell! It is harder to identify smells than you might think!


Uncle Kirk and Kam... always up to no good! :)


Meki and Ramon

While playing games we found some treasures that brought tears to our eyes and reminded us of those we love and who are no longer with us:


How I miss my Grandma and Grandpa Ellersick and my Uncle Mike. It was a good reminder of how short life can be and how quickly times goes by and that it really is worth the effort to work on family relationships.



Then it was time to pop the bubbly...real and faux...and toot the tooters!!
We went outside to welcome 2019 in with style!! 

We had Ramon be the first one to cross the threshold in 2019 to bring us good luck. Legend says to have a handsome dark haired man be the first one to cross your threshold and you will have good luck for the year. So far so good...the next day Kirk found $20 and Tyler just won his office pool for the NCAA championships. THANKS RAMON!! LOL.

Kirk and Meki drove back to Utah on New Years Day and we went home to take down our Christmas trees and un-decorate. Boo. I love Christmas decor and it always makes me sad and blah to take it all down.



This year packaging up all of the ornaments was a little bittersweet. We have carried on the tradition that my family had of giving our kids ornaments every year. They get to open an ornament up along with their Christmas pajamas. This is highly anticipated because the ornaments are always special. They have special meaning or represent something in their lives from the past year. My mom always gives all of her children, their spouses, and grandchildren special ornaments each year too. The tradition is that when you move out all on your own ie no roommates so a serious grown up or get married you get your ornaments. It is highly anticipated and very special to receive your box of ornaments. I remember when my mom gave me mine... as a wedding gift. I was more excited about that box of ornaments than any other gift we received. Reilly requested her box of ornaments and Tyler and I lovingly took them off of our trees and packed them away for her. We were super sentimental and sad to see some of our very favorites go. She will have a tree full of beautiful and special ornaments next year.


We also had two dental issues over the holidays:


Kam had a filling come out and with it a chunk of his tooth and Tyler had a tooth ache for several days leading up to New Years. Neither of which were *technically* emergencies so both of them had to wait until dental offices opened up in January. Kam's whole situation is quite the dilemma. More to come on that!

I love that I found this gem on my phone...and listed in my contacts as " Your favorite nephew!" :)


 Ha Ha! Thanks Kaiden! You might have to fight Dane, RJ, and Kirin for that title!!


 Happy New Year!!