Tuesday, August 16, 2016

July: Things I am Loving

July: Things I am Loving

1.) This Podcast


Are you on the podcast bandwagon yet? Why not?! I have been binge listening to this podcast throughout July. I love it!! It combines several things that I love: books, discussion of books, and podcasts. The podcaster is Anne Bogel. She writes the blog The Modern Mrs. Darcy. Have you heard of it? I have been enjoying her reading lists for years. If you like to read you really need to check her out. On the What Should I Read Next podcast she interviews people from all different walks of life and asks these questions:

1.) Name 3 books you love.
2.) Name one book you hate.
3.) What are you currently reading?
4.) Is there anything that you would change about your current reading life?

Then based on all that information she selects three books that she thinks they would enjoy reading. She also occasionally brings back previous guests to discuss which of her picks they read next and what they thought of it.

It is highly enjoyable and addictive listening. I love this podcast because it covers all kinds of genres and authors but isn't snobby or esoteric. Most of the books discussed I have at least heard of or know of the author. It feels like the kind of conversations I like to have with my own book loving friends. Listening has given me many more ideas on what I should read next and has allowed me to participate...vicariously...in discussions about books that I have read, loved, or hated. Good times!! I highly recommend.

2.) Tyler's New Continuous Blood Glucose Monitor



This little piece of equipment has been life changing. It really should be number one. Dealing with Tyler's blood sugar is pretty much an all day/all night...24/7... experience. If I had a dollar for every time I said "Test your blood." I would be a billionaire a million times over. Testing your blood multiple times during the day and night is absolutely vital to a diabetic. Your life depends on it. And...the lives of others if you intend to drive a car or do any other task like that. Tyler probably tests his blood about 10 times a day. His fingers are tough scar tissue. He is having to test on the sides of his fingers now which is much more painful. He knows that he has to test often to find out how much insulin he needs and then he programs his pump to supply it automatically. But sometimes he forgets or he ate a big meal and dosed up too high or exercised and didn't take that into account. Even extreme heat or eating food with ginger in it will make his insulin extra effective and his blood sugar plummets. There are hundreds of things that can effect his blood glucose levels. "What is your blood sugar?" is the first question that I ask every morning and the last one I ask every night. I also wake up in the middle of the night (every night for the last 21 years) and usually multiple times a night to ask him what his blood sugar is or to have him test his blood. It's not fun for either one of us but we don't have a choice. The kids and I are good at watching him to see when he is just a little off. I am a darn good judge at whether his blood sugar is high or low. Better than Tyler in fact. He's usually pretty good about listening to me. During the night I can get a good gage just by asking him "Are you okay?" and listening to his response. He has only been taken by ambulance once in our marriage. (knock on wood). But he has gotten pretty darn low about 25-30 times over the years. Maybe once or twice a year I am required to literally force orange juice down his throat. (No, it is not like that scene from Steel Magnolias. Tyler HATES that movie depiction.)

Tyler has had diabetes for 36 years now and takes very good care of himself. He is in very tight control which causes his blood sugar to dip more often. (High blood sugar is actually more dangerous to your organs but low blood sugar makes it difficult to function.) Over the last year, we've noticed his blood sugar dropping super low without him being aware of it at all. Even I am not seeing all the things that usually tell me that something is off. He can now have a blood glucose reading a good 20 points lower than what sent him to the hospital in the middle of the night years ago and he is acting almost completely normal. Scary. Something needed to change. Luckily technology is keeping up. Tyler told his doctor what was happening and was able to get a continuous blood glucose monitor. This is a wearable device. It has some nasty looking prongs and implants into the skin. He claims it doesn't hurt once it is on. He wears it on his upper arm. It tracks his glucose throughout the day and night. It notifies you of highs and lows so you can take action. So he can be at work sitting at his desk working away and he will get an alarm and notification on his Iphone. Kind of like a text message sound. It will let you know that your blood glucose is high or low. It is AWESOME!! Even better I get an alarm on my Iphone too. Plus, I can track his blood glucose all day and all night just by an app on my phone...as can Tyler. I can see what it is at any time day or night. Kameron also has the app on his phone and gets the notifications too.

It makes me cry thinking about how miraculous and life changing this is for us. Tyler is in even better control. His poor fingers are spared. I am not constantly worried. I have slept through the night for the first time in 21 years. If I want to (and I usually still do) I can roll over in bed in the middle of the night and just check his blood sugar super quick on my phone. I can't tell you how comforting it is to know that an alarm will go off if anything changes. It has been such a HUGE blessing in our lives.

I think this technology is especially amazing for parents with kids who are diabetic. You don't have to worry about sending them to school or camp or to a friend's house or to college. (Reilly can track Tyler's blood sugar from Utah if she wanted to.) I am so thankful and grateful for technology that has truly improved our quality of life.

Now onto things more fun...

3.) Red Sour Patch Kids Slurpees at 7-11


This is my summer treat pick of 2016. They are delicious especially if you are a sour Slurpee lover like me. Kameron was the only one who didn't choose the red sour patch flavor on this particular day and boy did he regret it!

4.) Snap Chat Bee Videos

Yes, yes! They are obnoxious but they are also hilarious to all of those involved. This is pretty much our family's favorite way to communicate about our day. I probably have over a hundred of these videos and more are taken every day. You have been spared the actual videos... for now.  There are some serious gems though that I will probably share on the blog eventually.


Kameron despises these videos and has only participated in three... all of which are pure joys!! Ha Ha!!



5.) Summer Reading 


It really is my favorite. Reading by the lake, the pool, in the afternoons, or out on our deck. It just doesn't get any better!! Cozy winter reading is nice and all but there is something so delightful and decadent about reading late at night knowing that you don't have to get up early in the morning. Guilt-free afternoon reading is pretty grand too. I have truly been enjoying it and breezing through the books!!

Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Summer Book Reviews: Part 2

Summer Book Reviews: Part 2

1.) Northanger Abbey by Jane Austen


I am still on my quest to read more classics and Jane Austen and the Brontes are my safe harbors. It's hard to dislike anything written by them and this book was utterly enjoyable as well. Yay classics!!

From Goodreads:

Northanger Abbey is often referred to as Jane Austen's Gothic parody. Decrepit castles, locked rooms, mysterious chests, cryptic notes, and tyrannical fathers give the story an uncanny air, but one with a decidedly satirical twist. The story's heroine is Catherine Morland, an innocent seventeen-year-old woman from a country parsonage. While spending a few weeks in Bath with a family friend, Catherine meets and falls in love with Henry Tilney, who invites her to visit his family estate, Northanger Abbey. Once there, Catherine, a great reader of Gothic thrillers, lets the shadowy atmosphere of the old mansion fill her mind with terrible suspicions. What is the mystery surrounding the death of Henry's mother? Is the family concealing a terrible secret within the elegant rooms of the Abbey? Can she trust Henry, or is he part of an evil conspiracy? Catherine finds dreadful portents in the most prosaic events, until Henry persuades her to see the peril in confusing life with art.

OH. MY. GOSH. I was surprised at how much I liked this book. It was so funny and I loved the parody of the Gothic novel genre of the time. The novel is witty and sarcastic. I often found myself chuckling away. Jane Austen was a genius and this book is brilliant. I was thoroughly charmed.

My Rating: I LOVED IT!

2.) 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker



From Goodreads:

American life can be excessive, to say the least. That’s what Jen Hatmaker had to admit after taking in hurricane victims who commented on the extravagance of her family’s upper middle class home. She once considered herself unmotivated by the lure of prosperity, but upon being called “rich” by an undeniably poor child, evidence to the contrary mounted, and a social experiment turned spiritual was born. 7 is the true story of how Jen (along with her husband and her children to varying degrees) took seven months, identified seven areas of excess, and made seven simple choices to fight back against the modern-day diseases of greed, materialism, and overindulgence.

Because I enjoyed her book For the Love so much I decided to immediately read another one of her books. This is one of her most well-known. I was hoping that I would like this book just as much. Unfortunately, I did not. The premise was intriguing. A social experiment with a spiritual basis...Hatmaker and her family identified seven areas of excess: food, clothing, spending, media, possessions, waste, and stress, and attempted to remove one of those areas from their lives each month. She writes in a diary format about how it is going for herself and her family in each area. I found it interesting to read about how exactly she and her family were going execute their plan each month. How they went about removing the excess from each of these areas in their lives was pretty drastic. For example, during the month where the emphasis was food, Hatmaker resolved to only eat 7 foods for the entire month. Or only wearing 7 items of clothing in a month. The take away message is that we have too much excess in our lives, that we can live (and thrive!) with less, and that we can take our over abundance and use it to help those around us in big ways. I agree with all of it. But for whatever reason this book didn't really do it for me...I just didn't LOVE it. Her self-deprecating tone in this book got to be a little bit too much for me whereas I really enjoyed her voice in For the Love. There is another Hatmaker book that I am interested in reading so I will give her another try. She is quite entertaining to follow on social media. I highly recommend doing so.

My Rating: An interesting look at over consumption in our society.

3.) Agnes Grey by Anne Bronte



From Goodreads:

At age 19 Anne Brontë left home and worked as a governess for a few years before becoming a writer. Agnes Grey was an 1847 novel based on her experience as a governess. Bronte depicts the precarious position of a governess and how that can affect a young woman. Agnes was the daughter of a minister whose family was in financial difficulty. She has only a few choices for employment. Agnes experiences the difficulty of reining in spoiled children and how wealth can corrupt morals.

I find the Brontes fascinating. As I am now reading even more of their books, I find them even more so. Charlotte, Emily, Branwell, and Anne. Their lives, their deaths, their imaginary world and lost writings. It's good stuff. This was my first Anne Bronte novel. While perhaps not as entertaining as Jane Eyre or Wuthering Heights, this novel was still an enjoyable read albeit less complex. She did a fantastic job describing the nasty charges and woeful conditions of Agnes Grey...the Bloomfield children (little psychopaths!) and the naughty Murray sisters. It was delightful. She also did a wonderful job of depicting social class and the working conditions of women who were in domestic service...especially the lowly governess... as completely powerless. The feeling was palpable. This novel is quiet, perhaps like Anne herself, with gentle prose and is much less dramatic than some of her sisters' works. Still, I found the trials of the long-suffering Agnes Grey highly readable. I look forward to reading Anne Bronte's more popular work, The Tenant of Wildfell Hall.

My Rating: Lovely

4.) Looking For Lovely by Annie F. Downs


From Goodreads:

“I want you to take every step of your life with excitement for where you are headed. And I want you to feel beautiful and confident as you do.” But how? When the enemy whispers lies that you are not smart enough, pretty enough, or rich enough? Or you are too dumb, too loud, too quiet, too thin, too fat, too much or not enough? What if you don’t have what it takes to be who you really want to be? In Looking for Lovely, Annie F. Downs shares personal stories, biblical truth, and examples of how others have courageously walked the path God paved for their lives by remembering all God had done, loving what was right in front of them, and seeing God in the everyday..."

This is another Christian author that I have heard interviewed on various podcasts and have enjoyed. She is extremely likable. She has written another book popular called, Let's All Be Brave. Perhaps I should have started there. I just didn't enjoy this book as much as I had hoped.

This book is highly personal. The author talks candidly about her "broken crazy". Sometimes to the point that I felt a little uncomfortable. The author shares experiences from her life and allows herself to be quite vulnerable. She shares how she has used her trials and experiences to move forward and to "look for the lovely" i.e. God's hand and His many tender mercies in her life. Gratitude is healing. That message is one that is so important for the world to hear. Downs' tone is conversational and easy to read. Her message is that we are all works in progress and that God loves us unconditionally. So while I appreciate her candor and her message, the book didn't grab me.

My Rating: Okay

5.) Lady Susan by Jane Austen




From Goodreads:

Beautiful, flirtatious, and recently widowed, Lady Susan Vernon seeks an advantageous second marriage for herself, while attempting to push her daughter into a dismal match. A magnificently crafted novel of Regency manners and mores that will delight Austen enthusiasts with its wit and elegant expression.

I had never even heard of this particular Jane Austen book before I went looking on my Kindle for free classics. What a delight to come upon it!! It was so much fun and so clever! I thoroughly enjoyed the epistolary style it was written in. The letters back and forth from the various characters in the book were so entertaining. It was tremendous fun to read about the dastardly doings of the coquettish and scheming Lady Susan and her equally awful friend, Mrs. Johnson. I loved the fretting and disgust of her sister-in-law, Mrs. Vernon. It was a fun and very quick read. I also just found...today in fact...that the movie Love and Friendship is in fact the movie version of Lady Susan. Perfect timing! Can't wait to see it.

My Rating: Fun!

6.) The Good, The Bad, and The Grace  of God by Jep and Jessica Roberston





From Goodreads:

Jep Robertson, the youngest son of Duck Commander, Phil Robertson, and his wife, Jessica, open up about their personal trials, their early years together, and the challenges that might have destroyed them both had the grace of God not intervened. Jep describes being molested as a child and his reluctance to tell anyone until only a few years ago, his downward spiral into drug and alcohol abuse, and the eventual intervention of his family. Jessica shares about the difficult failure of her first marriage while still a teenager and the hurt that came along with it, much of it from the church. Her insecurities spun out of control as she wondered whether she would ever be good enough or pretty enough. This book is their love story but, more importantly, their love story for God.

I preface this review as I do with each of my reviews of a book written by any of the Robertsons. If you like them, you will like this book. What I particularly love about the Robertsons, besides their love of family, is their willing to share their faith and their love of God in a big and public way. They take a lot of hits and criticism for it too. I completely respect that, especially in our society that vilifies and tears down people of faith. I also appreciate their openness. I particularly enjoy reading books that lack pretension and that the author(s) are real and honest. Even when it doesn't cast them in the best possible light. That is somewhat the case in this book at times. All in all, it was a quick and enjoyable read. I appreciate the themes of overcoming trials, forgiveness, redemption, and sharing the love of Christ.

My Rating: Pretty good.

7.) The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis




From Goodreads:


'They say Aslan is on the move. Perhaps he has already landed,' whispered the Beaver. Edmund felt a sensation of mysterious horror. Peter felt brave and adventurous. Susan felt as if some delightful strain of music had just floated by. And Lucy got that feeling when you realize it's the beginning of summer. So, deep in the bewitched land of Narnia, the adventure begins. They opened a door and entered a world--Narnia--the land beyond the wardrobe, the secret country known only to Peter, Susan, Edmund, and Lucy. Lucy is the first to stumble through the back of the enormous wardrobe in the professor's mysterious old country house, discovering the magic world beyond. At first, no one believes her. But soon Edmund, Peter and Susan, too, discover the magic and meet Aslan, the Great Lion, for themselves. And in the blink of an eye, they are changed forever.

When I was in 3rd grade my father gave me a boxed set of The Chronicles of Narnia for Christmas that year. This was the exact cover of my own copy of The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe. That set got lost somewhere during my college years so you can imagine my joy when I found the same boxed set at a thrift store in Portland. I was thrilled. I instantly began reading them to my two youngest daughters. These books were magical to me as a young girl. I loved each and every book in the set particularly The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe and the last book in the series, The Last Battle. Even as a non-religious little girl who knew pretty much nothing about the Bible, I knew that these books...and Aslan in particular...had something to do with Jesus and I was drawn to them.

Now years later, I am a mother of four children and a woman of faith. It was fun to read this book to my daughters, who are quite knowledgeable of the scriptures, and watch them make the connection. It was magic. They also enjoyed the references to being "Daughters of Eve" they thought that was pretty cool. I loved this book as a child and I think that I loved it even more while sharing it with my own children.

My Rating: Excellent!

8.) The Girls Series by Rachel Hollis




From Goodreads:

Book 1: Party Girl

Landon Brinkley’s dreams are all coming true. She’s landed an internship with the fabulous Selah Smith, event planner for the Hollywood elite, taking her from small-town Texas to the bright lights of LA. Landon soon finds herself in a world in which spending a million dollars on an event—even a child’s birthday party—is de rigueur and the whims of celebrity clients are life-and-death matters. At first, the thrill of working on A-list parties and celebrity weddings is enough to get Landon through the seventy-five-hour workweeks and endless abuse at the hands of her mercurial boss. But when the reality of the business reveals itself, she’s forced to make a choice: do whatever it takes to get ahead, or stay true to herself. Drawing on the author’s real-life experiences as an event planner to the stars, Party Girl takes readers on an adventure among Hollywood’s most beautiful—and most outrageous—people, revealing the ugly side of Hollywood’s prettiest parties.

Book 2: Sweet Girl

Max Jennings is in a bad mood. It’s not anything you did; it’s just that secrets from her past make it her natural state of being. But she’s not going to talk about it or share her feelings, so don’t bother asking. Max’s bad mood means that very few people actually truly understand her or know that her secret dream is to be a pastry chef. When a rare opportunity to work for world-famous Avis Phillips presents itself, Max jumps at the chance. Avis and her staff aren’t stingy with the tough love, so Max spends every spare minute practicing her craft. As she bakes brownies and custards, cookies and galettes, she builds an unlikely friendship with a man she once loathed and finds herself falling into something she’s spent the last six years avoiding. Will she let her painful past stand in the way, or will she muster the strength to forgive herself and realize her full potential?

Book 3:  Smart Girl

Brilliant designer Miko Jin is a hopeless romantic. She’s spent most of her life falling in love over and over again…with the men she finds in the pages of her favorite novels. When Miko meets Liam Ashton, it’s love at first sight. At least, for her. Sure, the two of them are polar opposites, and yes, he seems to be dating someone new each week. But Miko knows what true love is and that you can’t rush it—after all, what she lacks in real-world experience, she makes up for in book smarts. With novels as her guide, and her best friends by her side, she knows she can get Liam to love her back. But just like any good romance novel, fate has a few plot twists in store. Will Miko get her own happy ending? Will she find the strength to stand up for what she deserves even if it means breaking her own heart?

Novella: The Party Girl's First Date

Landon Brinkley is twenty-four years old and she’s never been on a real date. That’s mostly because she’s been working so hard on her dreams she hasn’t had time to bother with men. But then Brody Ashton walked into her life and since he looks like an underwear model (but you know, with clothes on) it was kind of impossible not to take notice. So Landon and Brody are dating now, or really, beginning to. It’s all very new and exciting and there’s only one problem… they still haven’t gone on a real date. So that’s what tonight is supposed to be; magical, romantic, expensive… and it's about to go horribly wrong.

This is a book series that I heard about on a podcast. I really love podcasts!! :) The author was being interviewed and I loved her!! She is hilarious and inspiring. Rachel Hollis has a lifestyle blog called The Chic Site, a fun Instagram account, and a great YouTube channel as well. I didn't think that I  would enjoy the books as much as I did. It was a fun surprise. Take them for what they are and were intended to be...delightful chic lit. They are sweet, cute, funny, awkward, and charming. I breezed through them...including the novella... in less than a week. They are great summer reads. I read the Kindle editions. They are super cheap. The first book and the last book are based on the author's own experiences. The first book is about her time working with celebrities as a party planner in Hollywood and the third book is based on her relationship with her husband. I also loved all the literary references in the third book. I got each and every one of them. #booknerd. It was my favorite book in the series.

My Rating: Great fun!

9.) A Homemade Life by Molly Wizenberg




From Goodreads:

When Molly Wizenberg's father died of cancer, everyone told her to go easy on herself, to hold off on making any major decisions for a while. But when she tried going back to her apartment in Seattle and returning to graduate school, she knew it wasn't possible to resume life as though nothing had happened. So she went to Paris, a city that held vivid memories of a childhood trip with her father, of early morning walks on the cobbled streets of the Latin Quarter and the taste of her first pain au chocolat. She was supposed to be doing research for her dissertation, but more often, she found herself peering through the windows of chocolate shops, trekking across town to try a new pâtisserie, or tasting cheeses at outdoor markets, until one evening when she sat in the Luxembourg Gardens reading cookbooks until it was too dark to see, she realized that her heart was not in her studies but in the kitchen...Molly Wizenberg recounts a life with the kitchen at its center. 

I love a good food memoir and this one came highly recommended. The author has a blog called Orangette that I have perused a time or two. She and her husband also have a restaurant in Seattle called Delancy. I have never been there but I would definitely like to give it a try sometime. The book is written as a selection of very readable essays with correlating recipes at the end of each chapter. You can read the book by reading a few essays one day and then picking it up again to read a few more another day or you can read it straight through like I did. I was hooked by page 11 when I read this:

"...You can tell a lot about someone by their potato salad. I like to think of it as the Roschach test of foods." (page 11)

I have TOTALLY thought that!! Seriously!! (Just like you can learn a lot about a person by asking them what their five favorite books are.) Both can be deal breakers. I love potato salad and am VERY PARTICULAR about it. Luckily Tyler and I are potato salad compatible. That could have been a big problem in our marriage. Huge.



**SIDE NOTE: Growing up I thought that there was only one way to make potato salad...the way my mother makes it. Little did I know as I ventured out into the world how many possible ways there are to make such a basic comfort food. So many terrible...disgusting...ways. My mom's recipe is based off of her mother's recipe but jazzed up a bit. My Grandma Ellersick made hers with russet potatoes, eggs, dill pickles and mayo (Best Foods of course.) Pretty bland. My mom took that recipe and ran with it...she changed it up a bit though... and added red potatoes, eggs, dill pickles, green onions, salt and pepper and mustard. When I went to college my roommate/BFF also made her potato salad the same way as my mom did (it was her mother's recipe) and thus we knew that we would/could be life-long friends. My step-grandma (My Nana) made hers with eggs, russet potatoes, sweet pickles, sweet onions and miracle whip. (inedible). My dad's mom bought hers from the grocery store in a plastic tub. (Also inedible) My mother-in-law makes hers with russet potatoes, celery (are you kidding me?), eggs, miracle whip, and the barest squirt of mustard. (No.) The author's father's potato salad has caraway seeds, red onions, no eggs, fresh dill and ranch dressing. See, you really can learn a lot about people from their potato salad!!

My recipe is based on my mom's recipe that I have jazzed up and a hint I got from my cousin Hannah.  I feel that it is the gold star of potato salads:

Kristin Johnson's Potato Salad:

yellow new potatoes
boiled eggs
green onions
dill pickles
sweet pickles (this dill/sweet combo I got from Hannah)
Best Foods Mayo (No substitutions)
French's Yellow Mustard (No substitutions)
Grey Poupon Dijon Mustard (No substitutions)
Salt and Pepper

I like my potato salad pretty egg-y. I also like a lot of pickles (of both varieties). When preparing...I get a small bowl and mix up the mayo, both kinds of mustard (I like mine very mustard-y), and add in a big slosh of dill pickle juice from the dill pickle jar (I learned that from my weird Uncle Clayton). Whisk it all together and pour the velvety sauce over the potatoes, eggs, pickles, and green onions that have been generously salt and peppered. Whisking up the sauce makes it so much better and with the addition of the pickle juice it coats beautifully. I like to eat mine when the potatoes and eggs are still slightly warm...it must be the German in me. **
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So, if you can wax philosophical about potato salad you will probably like this book. At times the author can be fairly pretentious but most foodie-types are...myself included. I found it cozy reading about recipes and the relationships behind them. The author talks about how when we go into the kitchen we never go alone. We take with us all of our friends and family members whose recipes we make. I truly believe that! It also makes time travel possible. One bite of a certain food and I am in another time and place. I love that! I also quite enjoyed the book.

My Rating: A cozy foodie read.







Tuesday, August 09, 2016

Summer Book Reviews

Summer Book Reviews: Part 1


1.) The Flight of Gemma Hardy by Margot Livesey


From Goodreads:

When her widower father drowns at sea, Gemma Hardy is taken from her native Iceland to Scotland to live with her kind uncle and his family. But the death of her doting guardian leaves Gemma under the care of her resentful aunt, and it soon becomes clear that she is nothing more than an unwelcome guest at Yew House. When she receives a scholarship to a private school, ten-year-old Gemma believes she's found the perfect solution and eagerly sets out again to a new home. However, at Claypoole she finds herself treated as an unpaid servant. To Gemma's delight, the school goes bankrupt, and she takes a job as an au pair on the Orkney Islands. The remote Blackbird Hall belongs to Mr. Sinclair, a London businessman; his eight-year-old niece is Gemma's charge..Set in Scotland and Iceland in the 1950s and '60s, The Flight of Gemma Hardy is a captivating homage to Charlotte Brontë's Jane Eyre--is a sweeping saga that resurrects the timeless themes of the original but is destined to become a classic all its own

This book was a perfect summer vacation book. Perfect dockside reading. I thought it was a lot of fun and couldn't put it down. I love a book set in Scotland. Plus, in this book, some of the action takes place in Iceland and while I was reading it a friend and her family were traveling in Iceland and I was following along on their journey via Instagram and it added an incredible richness to my reading. I normally don't love adaptations of other books especially beloved classics but I thought that Livesey did a good job and I often forgot that was a retelling. That is hard to do. The one thing that didn't work for me was the time period. The way that this story read had me picturing an early time...late 1800s, early 1900s, maybe even the 1920s or the 1930s. The late 1950s and 1960s didn't work for me and I found references to the time period jarring. I often skimmed past those because they didn't work for me in this story. I just ignored them and kept picturing them at an early time when I could. I also thought that the last half of the book was weak and that took the novel down a notch for me. I still thoroughly enjoyed this book and found it to be a lovely vacation read. I look forward to reading more of this author's work.

My Rating: Enjoyable

2.) Where The Light Gets In by Kimberly Williams-Paisley



I am trying to read more nonfiction. This book came highly rated from several people and I thought I would give it a try. It broke my heart. 

From Goodreads:

Many know Kimberly Williams-Paisley as the bride in the popular Steve Martin remakes of the Father of the Bride movies, the calculating Peggy Kenter on Nashville, or the wife of country music artist, Brad Paisley. But behind the scenes, Kim was dealing with a tragic secret: her mother, Linda, was suffering from a rare form of dementia that slowly crippled her ability to talk, write and eventually recognize people in her own family. Where the Light Gets In tells the full story of Linda’s illness—called primary progressive aphasia—from her early-onset diagnosis at the age of 62 through the present day. Kim draws a candid picture of the ways her family reacted for better and worse, and how she, her father and two siblings educated themselves, tried to let go of shame and secrecy, made mistakes, and found unexpected humor and grace in the midst of suffering.

This is a powerful and moving account of a relationship between a mother and daughter as they navigate the unknown waters of a terrible diagnosis. Oftentimes the author is brutally honest...even when it doesn't put her in the best light or her relationship with her mother. I respected that so much. Kimberly Williams-Paisley tells us very candidly what it is like to have a parent suffering from dementia. It is hard. She doesn't sugar coat anything and there are no attempts to spin things in an inspiring way. It is just real and real can be hard and painful and unflattering. As the author described her mother's decline and the effect it had on her family; it was painful and yet important, to read. I think this book is a must-read for everyone. Even if you don't have a family member suffering from something like this; the insight that it gives into what is truly involved in being a caregiver, and the toll that this kind of devastating diagnosis takes on family members, was enlightening. I appreciate the awareness that this book provides and the compassion that comes because of it. I highly recommend it.

My Rating: A poignant and candid read.

3.) Persuasion by Jane Austen



I am also trying to read more classics.  Jane Austen was at the top of my list. This was my first reading of Persuasion. So enjoyable.

From Goodreads:

Twenty-seven-year old Anne Elliot is Austen's most adult heroine. Eight years before the story proper begins, she is happily betrothed to a naval officer, Frederick Wentworth, but she precipitously breaks off the engagement when persuaded by her friend Lady Russell that such a match is unworthy. The breakup produces in Anne a deep and long-lasting regret. When later Wentworth returns from sea a rich and successful captain, he finds Anne's family on the brink of financial ruin and his own sister a tenant in Kellynch Hall, the Elliot estate. All the tension of the novel revolves around one question: Will Anne and Wentworth be reunited in their love?

I truly enjoyed getting to know Anne and her Captain Wentworth. This novel has a much more refined feel to it. The heroine is older, the author is older, and the results are delightful. I was immediately captivated and drawn into the story. It is beautifully written...of course...it's Austen and it makes you feel ALL THE THINGS. Just what I want in a Jane Austen novel. I loved all the play on words, play on theme, and plays on emotions. It was a wonderful and captivating read. And the letter...THE LETTER...swoon!! Pride and Prejudice still reigns supreme as my favorite Austen novel but this one has a place in my heart too.

My Rating: Wonderful

4.) For the Love by Jen Hatmaker


From Goodreads:

The popular writer, blogger, and television personality reveals with humor and style how Jesus' extravagant grace is the key to dealing with life's biggest challenge: people.

This is not my usual genre. Very rarely do I read nonfiction by religious authors but I LOVED IT!! I became familiar with Jen Hatmaker when I heard her being interviewed on a podcast that I enjoy. She was hilarious. Her books were referenced several times on previous podcasts so I decided to see what all the hype was about. I checked her book out from the library and I literally laughed until I cried. I mean I seriously laughed out loud. Sometimes even in public...depending on where I happened to be reading. Throughout the book I kept thinking, "This author GETS ME!" The book also made me stop and think about social issues and ways to help in new and thought-provoking ways.  The author also made me think about Grace in ways that I never have before. I love it when books do things like that!!

This book had some wonderful food for thought without coming across as preachy and boring. Jen Hatmaker is super relatable, honest, and real. Reading the different essays is like having a fun conversation with a hilarious friend. You cover all the bases...friends, family, fashion, pop culture, religion, food, world issues, and all the deep personal stuff too. This book definitely gave me cause for reflection in so many areas of my life. It is an encouraging, uplifting, and quick read.

My Rating: Hilarious and, oh so, refreshing!!

5.) Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert



From Goodreads:

"...this beloved author digs deep into her own generative process to share her wisdom and unique perspective about creativity. With profound empathy and radiant generosity, she offers potent insights into the mysterious nature of inspiration. She asks us to embrace our curiosity and let go of needless suffering. She shows us how to tackle what we most love, and how to face down what we most fear. She discusses the attitudes, approaches, and habits we need in order to live our most creative lives. Balancing between soulful spirituality and cheerful pragmatism, Gilbert encourages us to uncover the “strange jewels” that are hidden within each of us."

This book has received so much hype. A book for the creative types! I am a creative type so I thought that I would really enjoy it. Nope. Maybe it's not that surprising... I hated Eat, Pray, Love too. Gilbert readily acknowledges that she is an author that people either love or hate. #truth. I guess I fall into the hate or at least the strongly dislike category. Maybe she is better talking about her experiences in person rather than on the page. I know someone who heard her speak at a conference and was completely inspired. I've also heard that her TED talks are better. Maybe I will give those a try and see if it changes my opinion.

I loved the premise of inspiring creativity; I just absolutely hated her tone. It's too pretentious, too cheesy, and Elizabeth Gilbert is too full of herself. That said, there were a few nuggets:

-We are all creative in some way
-Follow your curiosity
-Make time to be creative
-If you are visited by a creative idea...pay attention
-Don't be held back by fear

Big Magic is nothing ground-breaking and is not for me.

My Rating: Skip it

6.) The Royal We by Heather Cocks and Jessica Morgan



From Goodreads:

"American Rebecca Porter was never one for fairy tales. Her twin sister, Lacey, has always been the romantic who fantasized about glamour and royalty, fame and fortune. Yet it's Bex who seeks adventure at Oxford and finds herself living down the hall from Prince Nicholas, Great Britain's future king. And when Bex can't resist falling for Nick, the person behind the prince, it propels her into a world she did not expect to inhabit, under a spotlight she is not prepared to face...Dating Nick immerses Bex in ritzy society, dazzling ski trips, and dinners at Kensington Palace with him and his charming, troublesome brother, Freddie. But the relationship also comes with unimaginable baggage: hysterical tabloids, Nick's sparkling and far more suitable ex-girlfriends, and a royal family whose private life is much thornier and more tragic than anyone on the outside knows. The pressures are almost too much to bear, as Bex struggles to reconcile the man she loves with the monarch he's fated to become."

This book is all kinds of fun!! Escapism at it's finest. A funny quick read. It's perfect summer time reading. I am not above enjoying good ol' chick lit every now and then. I especially enjoy British chick lit and this is pure Kate Middleton and Prince William Fan Fiction. I enjoy the royals. I enjoy romance novels.  I loved it!

My Rating: A fun frolicking romp!

7.) The Lake House by Kate Morton



From Goodreads:

Living on her family’s idyllic lakeside estate in Cornwall, England, Alice Edevane is a bright, inquisitive, innocent, and precociously talented sixteen-year-old who loves to write stories. But the mysteries she pens are no match for the one her family is about to endure…One midsummer’s eve, after a beautiful party drawing hundreds of guests to the estate has ended, the Edevanes discover that their youngest child, eleven-month-old Theo, has vanished without a trace. What follows is a tragedy that tears the family apart in ways they never imagined. A lush, atmospheric tale of intertwined destinies, this latest novel from a masterful storyteller is an enthralling, thoroughly satisfying read. 

Oh Kate Morton...you had me at "Lake House". Could there be a more perfect title for a lake girl? I think not. What? Add in three sisters and one brother. My exact sibling configuration. Throw in an intriguing mystery and an abandoned house. I'm sold.

I am a huge Kate Morton fan. I have had this book in reserve as a luscious treat saved for a special occasion. Finally the occasion presented itself and I dove in. The book was just as I thought it would be, beautifully written, twisty and atmospheric, complex family relationships, secrets, and a gorgeous setting. I savored every minute and enjoyed it immensely. One of my top three Kate Morton novels. I loved it!

My Rating: Enchanting

Monday, August 08, 2016

July

July

July truly passed by in a blur. With our trip to Flathead Lake, the 4th of July, and our family reunion, I pretty much blinked and July was gone.

Probably the most exciting other news of the month was that Ailey went to Girls Camp for the first time!!


She was super excited and also very nervous!!

Katie, Ailey, and Clara

I was texted a couple of pictures of Ailey from some of my friends who were at Girls Camp too... like the one below... and I saw more on FB.  It definitely looked like Ailey was having a great time!!


Camie and Ailey making crafts!!

While Ailey was gone our house was SO QUIET!! Reilly and Ailey are our loud chatterboxes. Kameron and Bryn are both quieter, definitely calmer, and enjoy doing their own thing. It was weird. So silent. Tyler and I took advantage of having only two kids at home and did a bunch of one-on-one things with Kameron and Bryn. Tyler had each one of them come and have lunch with him at the cafeteria at his office. They have some great food! They loved it.


Kam declined taking a selfie. 15 year olds...


Bryn and I went to the movies together, shopping, and out for a treat.

We went on a bunch of family walks after dinner:






Enjoying the view!!




Ailey came home from camp full of tales of adventure!! She had a BLAST and said that she didn't miss us a bit! Good. This from the girl who cried her eyes out the night before because she was going to miss me so much. Ha ha!!


We've hung out and done a lot of this...nothing!

We started Tea Party Tuesdays:



My girls have been begging me to do this with them for the last 6 months. My step-sister-in-law Hanna is a home schooling mama and she does all kinds of fun/interesting things with her girls. This is one of them. She has tea parties with her girls where you share and discuss poetry...fun and educational. (Don't even get me started on my rant about how poetry is dead in the WA state school system.) Well...things were pretty busy around here and we never got around to doing it. When school got out for summer this was number one on my girls list of things to do...and we still never got around to it. Finally on the VERY last Tuesday of July we managed to squeeze it in and it was a HIT!!





On this particular day we discussed Shel Silverstein (Bryn's pick), poems from a vintage 1930s children's book of poetry (Ailey's pick), and the children's poem Which Loved Best by Joy Allison which I love and quote often!! I made Reilly memorize it when she was little because she was very often "little Nell" in the poem...and so are a few other Johnson kids that I could name. Hint. Hint. (They got the message.)  It also has the distinction of once being quoted in general conference by President Monson which lends it a certain gravitas to my children. I also picked my old favorite Stay Gold by Robert Frost. This poem was memorized by me and my cousin Tania in the height of an Outsiders frenzy. (Tania, Stacey, and I also memorized nearly all of the Shel Silverstein poems from Where the Sidewalk Ends one summer too. There was no TV at the lake. There still isn't.)

That lead to this:


Glorious day!!


**Side note: When I was in 4th grade my 17 year-old babysitter Andrea Fullmer was reading it. She could barely watch us because she said it was SOOO GOOD! She told me all about it and told me that if I let her finish it she would leave her copy with me. She did. That book changed me. My horizons were forever broadened and a whole new world of literature opened up for me. My babysitter Andy and I discussed these characters for a month straight. She bought me an Outsiders Tiger Beat magazine that I still have and picked me up and took me to see the movie with she and her cool high school friends. Andy was an awesome babysitter!! The next summer at the lake I introduced my cousin Tania to the joys of Pony Boy, Soda Pop, Johnny, Dally et al. Since then I have LOVED sharing this book with friends, family, and MOST OF ALL... MY CHILDREN!! This book made readers out of Reilly and Kameron...even though I initially had to bribe them to read it. They loved it. When Kameron heard that Ailey was reading it he literally fist pumped the air and shouted "yes!" (That's more emotion than I have seen out of Kameron in about 6 months. 15 is a little on the apathetic and surly side these days.) Reilly happened to call home that night and instantly began quoting it. Ailey devoured it in a day. She loved it too!!**

We went back to the lake because it's summer and it's hot:



Hanging out with my mom's dog...Maggie Mae


She's getting calmer. Hallelujah. She used to just be a black blur in pictures.


In all our lakey glory!

Where is our little Norwegian flower?


Sitting in the shade. Trust me. He was having a good time. He got in and got out. He cannot take the heat.


View from my pink floatie. Looking at a child of mine who is under her pink floatie.




Then we went to dinner. In our swim suits. Wet swim suits. Lake hair don't care!


And we sucked down about a million of these.


And...That was July.