Friday, April 04, 2014

Book Reviews

Book Reviews


This book was recommended by someone in the same business as I am. She is a vendor in the vintage antiques world. She is also a fellow lover of the south and thought that I would enjoy this book. I did...to a certain extent. I loved all the details about all things vintage and southern. That was the problem. I wanted more details about those things and less about the characters and the story. It just didn't hold my attention.

From Goodreads:

Teddi Overman found her life’s passion for furniture in a broken-down chair left on the side of the road in rural Kentucky. She learns to turn other people’s castoffs into beautifully restored antiques, and eventually finds a way to open her own shop in Charleston. There, Teddi builds a life for herself as unexpected and quirky as the customers who visit her shop.  Though Teddi is surrounded by remarkable friends and finds love in the most surprising way, nothing can alleviate the haunting uncertainty she’s felt in the years since her brother Josh’s mysterious disappearance. When signs emerge that Josh might still be alive, Teddi is drawn home to Kentucky.  It’s a journey that could help her come to terms with her shattered family—and to find herself at last.  But first she must decide what to let go of and what to keep.

I enjoyed the book's southern setting and charm. I liked the eccentric characters and flowery descriptions and I didn't even mind the somewhat slow pace. I can handle a slow pace if it actually takes us somewhere. But I don't feel like the author really took us anywhere. We wandered around and around and around and ended up pretty much where we began. I kept thinking, Okay! Now we are really going to get going in the story and then sadly the story would splutter out. Why did Josh leave? Heck if I know. Where is he now? Heck if I know. Plus, what was all that business about "everyone has their secrets"? Heck if I know. I kept waiting for some secrets to come out and they never did. Frustrating. I liked the theme of forgiveness and letting go of the past. I just wish more of the loose ends could have been tied up or that a tad bit more action occurred.

My Rating: Okay




From Goodreads:

A sweeping story told in letters, spanning two continents and two world wars, Jessica Brockmole’s atmospheric debut novel captures the indelible ways that people fall in love, and celebrates the power of the written word to stir the heart.

March 1912: Twenty-four-year-old Elspeth Dunn, a published poet, has never seen the world beyond her home on Scotland’s remote Isle of Skye. So she is astonished when her first fan letter arrives, from a college student, David Graham, in far-away America. As the two strike up a correspondence—sharing their favorite books, wildest hopes, and deepest secrets—their exchanges blossom into friendship, and eventually into love. But as World War I engulfs Europe and David volunteers as an ambulance driver on the Western front, Elspeth can only wait for him on Skye, hoping he’ll survive.

June 1940: At the start of World War II, Elspeth’s daughter, Margaret, has fallen for a pilot in the Royal Air Force. Her mother warns her against seeking love in wartime, an admonition Margaret doesn’t understand. Then, after a bomb rocks Elspeth’s house, and letters that were hidden in a wall come raining down, Elspeth disappears. Only a single letter remains as a clue to Elspeth’s whereabouts. As Margaret sets out to discover where her mother has gone, she must also face the truth of what happened to her family long ago.

I enjoyed this book. I liked the setting. Any book set in Scotland instantly grabs my attention. My ancestors come from the Isle of Skye so I was even more intrigued. I liked the epistolary style of writing. I liked both of the main characters, Elspeth and David and each of their back stories. What I didn't enjoy was the infidelity and adultery. It cheapened the love story in my eyes unfortunately. The writing was beautiful and in all other respects I really enjoyed the novel.

My Rating: Good



It really kind of pains me to say this but I didn't really like the book. I admire Elizabeth Smart tremendously; she is an incredible person. Unfortunately to me, the book felt so detached and strange that I ended up sort of skimming the whole thing.

From Goodreads:

For the first time, ten years after her abduction from her Salt Lake City bedroom, Elizabeth Smart reveals how she survived and the secret to forging a new life in the wake of a brutal crime.

I used to live in SLC and have actually had a run in with Brian David Mitchell and Wanda Barzee. They were actually fairly well known among the local panhandlers. Most everyone living in SLC around the late 90's has probably seen them from time to time. We always just referred to him as "the guy dressed like a shepherd". One particular time Tyler, Reilly, and I were at the Super Target in Ft. Union. Reilly was just a toddler and we were there late one night. We happened to be in the checkout line right behind Brian David Mitchell (with his shepherd's staff in hand) and Wanda Barzee. They were buying a bag of oranges. The bag holding their oranges broke and oranges scattered everywhere. I instantly began helping them pick up all the oranges. We piled them up on the conveyor belt and the checker began to ring them up. When she gave them their total, it turned out that they didn't have enough money to pay for them. They were short by about $1.50. I began digging in my wallet for the money to make up the difference for them. I remember feeling so sorry for them. As I began to offer... Tyler grabbed my arm and told me "No. We aren't helping them." What ensued was one of the most nasty fights we have ever had. I had never known Tyler to be unkind or unhelpful to someone...anyone...especially someone in need. That was absolutely reprehensible to me. Plus, I did not take kindly in being told what to do. During our muted and hissed argument another checkout line opened up and we moved over there to ring up our purchases. I was furious. Our argument lingered for days. It was referenced for months. It was bad. Tyler never did have a good reason for not helping them besides a gut feeling and that infuriated me.

Well imagine years later when Elizabeth was found and the kidnappers mug shots were shown on TV. I was FLOORED. I remember that I was at the gym working out when the news broke that she had been found alive. I was in tears of joy. I had been following this case very closely and praying for her safe return. My joy turned to horror when I recognized her abductors. The shepherd guy and his wife. Whoa. I must say that Tyler felt quite vindicated for his unexplained reluctance to help two local panhandlers and, needless to say, I have never doubted Tyler's gut feelings again. .

All that aside... the book felt flat. I was particularly interested in how she recovered afterward. I wanted much more than she gave and clearly much more than she received. I kept putting myself in the place of her mother and wondered what I would say to her if she was my daughter. Her reentry into her family and normal life HAD to be more difficult than was related. It just isn't possible for it not to be. Even sharing Elizabeth Smart's faith, I don't know how she could have coped with all of that without some serious and intense counseling. It doesn't make sense to me. The book left me feeling blah and somewhat confused.

Best wishes to this amazing young woman and the good work that she continues to do.  I am so glad that prayers were answered and that she was returned home.

My Rating: Okay



I'm not going to lie. These books are fluffy and cheesy but I really like them. I can't say quite why. There are parts that truly irritate me; but they are so darn enjoyable!! This one was no different. I couldn't wait to get my hands on it and I read it in one day. I would classify this series as a "guilty pleasure".

From Goodreads: 

Melanie is only going through the motions of living since refusing Jack’s marriage proposal. She misses him desperately, but her broken heart is the least of her problems. Despite an insistence that she can raise their child alone, Melanie is completely unprepared for motherhood, and she struggles to complete renovations on her house on Tradd Street before the baby arrives.

When Melanie is roused one night by the sound of a ghostly infant crying, she chooses to ignore it. She simply does not have the energy to deal with one more crisis. That is, until the remains of a newborn buried in an old christening gown are found hidden in the foundation of her house.

As the hauntings on Tradd Street slowly become more violent, Melanie decides to find out what caused the baby’s untimely death, uncovering the love, loss, and betrayal that color the house’s history—and threaten her claim of ownership. But can she seek Jack’s help without risking her heart? For in revealing the secrets of the past, Melanie also awakens the malevolent presence that has tried to keep the truth hidden for decades.…


My Rating: Very Enjoyable



From Goodreads:

How do you do it all?”That’s the question that wife, mom, actress, and best-selling author Candace Cameron Bure is often asked. And it’s a question that women everywhere are asking themselves as we seek to balance all of our roles, responsibilities, and opportunities.

So, how do we do it? Working since the age of 5, Candace has been in a balancing act for nearly her entire life. She is the first to tell you that there is no miracle formula for perfect execution in every area of your life, but there definitely are some lessons to be learned, lessons that come to life in Candace's story.

Come along and dig into Candace’s story from her start in commercials, the balance-necessitating years on Full House, to adding on the roles of wife and mom while also returning to Hollywood. Insightful, funny, and poignant, Candace’s story will help you balance it all.




I watched Candace's interview on the Blaze TV after reading all about her alleged "controversial" beliefs. It boggles my mind that believing in the Bible is now controversial but alas it appears it is. I liked her interview and how she handled herself. I found her very refreshing in a Kim Kardashian world. She mentioned that she was on Instagram and I checked out her account and enjoyed what I found...this was all prior to her being on Dancing with the Stars. I appreciate those who stand up for what they believe and actually live what they profess. Candace Cameron Bure does just that and I applaud her.

As far as the book goes... it was just good solid common sense. Nothing earth shattering. Good info on time management, putting family first, and allowing God to guide you in your life. Nice. All the behind the scenes information about Full House was just icing on the cake.

My Rating: Not Bad


I've already explained my odd fascination with this family...no need to go there again. These days I just find myself drawn to people who live their faith out loud and weave it into everything they do. I crave positivity in an increasingly negative world.

From Goodreads:

In this second book from the Duggars, they focus on the principles that equip them to face life's challenges—drawing from their most recent challenge with the 3-month premature birth of their newest child, Josie. They also share the new challenges their older children are facing as they prepare for adult life.

This book was much better than the first. More heart felt, more depth, and less gruesome recipes. Win, Win, Win. I enjoyed reading it. How they manage their family never stops fascinating me.

My Rating: Not bad...if this family interests you.


I love this book!! It is so much more than a cookbook. Ann Romney is a class act and a mother after my own heart. I loved her memories and stories about her marriage, parenting, family traditions, and family management. She is funny, warm, and realistic about what in involved in raising (and feeding) a large family and what goes into a marriage. I found myself laughing out loud multiple times...while reading a cookbook!! How great is that?

From Goodreads: 

Ann Romney, wife of former presidential candidate Mitt Romney, invites readers into her home and kitchen, combining some of her favorite foods with memories of raising a family. Featuring more than 80 family recipes and mouthwatering photographs and menu ideas.

This is a book to be enjoyed on many levels. Good traditional home cooking. Recipes that are easy to prepare and still delicious. Sunday dinners, holiday meals, summer lake BBQ food all interwoven with funny and touching stories, gorgeous pictures, and family traditions. I was inspired. I love that all the proceeds go to charity...the Center for Neurologic Diseases at Brigham & Women’s Hospital in Boston.

I love the Romneys and I love Ann!! She is a wonderful representation of motherhood and womanhood.

My Rating: Excellent.

Tuesday, April 01, 2014

March

March has come and gone. 

Here are some things I missed...



This kid made honor roll and was honored at a special assembly at his middle school. We are super proud of all of his hard work.




Kam was all psyched to go on the Klondike...aka hiking, backpacking, snowshoeing, and camping on Mt. Spokane. Tyler was going with him and they were both so excited. It sounded like sheer hell to me. The temperatures then dipped to -25 and it was called off and they were both totally bummed.


Bryn registered for Kindergarten!! How is this possible? She and Elle are both hoping to get in at the same school. It would be so nice, in so many ways, if they did. It would be great if Elle can just ride along with the rest of my kids.


Bryn got her picture in our local newspaper. They were doing an article on the benefits of preschool for WA State children. Pretty cool!!


I got a notice for jury duty...not cool.


Bryn got her costume for her ballet recital. She is going to be a cute gray mouse. She was pretty happy!!


I met up with Stacey one Saturday to a hit a few sales for merchandise for Sisters Creed. We scored some great things from one of our favorite antiques dealer friends and then Tyler and I headed on to Moscow and Pullman and found some more great items for several upcoming sales.


I found these little numbers in Pullman for $1.50 and they have provided hours of entertainment for adults and kids alike. My Grandma M. had a pair of these that she bought for us when we were kids because we saw them on Romper Room. Ours were yellow. We used to clomp all over the place in them.


I tried doing sock curls on the little girls hair after watching multiple YouTube videos. They work great on Ailey's hair but not so well on Bryn's. We have done it several times since on Ailey and it always turns out cute. I think Bryn's hair is too long.



Ailey and Bryn started a business...they write out recipes from cookbooks and magazines for a small fee. They made up business cards and all sorts of things. This is pretty much win-win for me. I hate writing out recipes. I get several cooking magazines in the mail and find great recipes off of the Internet. If I try them and we like them I will write the recipe onto a card and then put it into my large recipe box. Only tried and true a recipes get to go into the recipe box. I have a whole folder of good recipes that I have tried, liked, and torn out of magazines. The girls can start copying them onto cards. If it's a recipe I like off of the Internet or \Pinterest they can print it off and glue it onto a card. This should keep them busy all Spring break and I love their ingenuity.




There are finally signs of life in my flowerbeds. Goodbye winter!! Hello Spring!! Now I guess I actually need to clean out my flower beds. Perhaps another money making opportunity for two little industrious girls.


Kameron is becoming quite handy!! Tyler has been teaching him how to do brake jobs on our vehicles and he is really getting the hang of it and doing a fantastic job. Tyler's dad wasn't a very handy DIY guy or good with auto repairs so Tyler has had to teach himself how to do pretty much everything. He is very determined that his kids learn how to do things like this and he is great at teaching them. Girls learn how to do repairs too. Both Reilly and Kameron have learned how to change tires, change the oil, do regular maintenance on our lawnmower etc. so I guess she will be next in line to learn how to do brake jobs. Pretty cool.

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Reilly had her Spring Choir Concert. For the first time in forever I actually nabbed a picture of her in her choir robes and got an up close...although not spectacular quality...photo of her in action.



Kameron was in his first ever Road Show. He was sheep #11 in a mash up of Little Bo Peep, Barbara Ann of the Beach Boys, and Shakespeare. It was quite the production!! He had a great time. He even got to dance with a special girl in our ward. Wink wink. He loved it.


The Reptile Guy came to our elementary school and held a special family night event. Tyler took all the girls...Reilly included...and they had a great time!! Kam had Road Show practice and was pretty bummed about missing it. Tyler brought me dinner before they left and I stayed home and read two new magazines and relaxed. Bliss.


It's BAAACCCKKK... my old nemesis...The Recorder. Three kids down... and still one to go. I don't know how many more times I can hear a squeaky Hot Cross Buns. It's brutal. I said this on Instagram and it remains true. Unlike piano...Ailey REALLY enjoys practicing the recorder. How unfortunate. It could be worse. When I was in elementary school we learned to play the harmonica and the ukulele. No joke. I still can't pass up blowing my harmonica when I come across it. Thanks Mr. Strong. And...I play a mean Red River Valley on the ukulele. Thanks Mr.Barlow. I wish I had the enthusiasm of Tyler's dad, who when his children brought these instruments home, he went out and bought more in varying sizes so the whole family could join in and have a recorder family band. That is love... or insanity...you decide.


I made a meal to beat all meals in the month of March. So delicious that I had to take a picture. It was Cilantro Chili Lime Tilapia over rice, with roasted broccoli, and mango. Delish. The roasted broccoli is the recipe on Pinterest that always says things like: "Best Broccoli Ever!! My kids ate the whole pan." That would be true. My kids can eat a whole cookie sheet of it. It's pretty good.


Elle's preschool/daycare was closed for the day and so she got to hang out with me on Friday. She is such a cutie. We took all the kids to school. She was very interested in all their different schools and seeing who their friends were. Then we took Bryn to preschool and she got to go in, meet Bryn's teacher, big buddies, friends, and their class fish. She got to stay and play for awhile too. Then we ran some errands and before we knew it it was time to pick up Bryn. The day was rainy and cold so our plans for the park were out. We went to...McDonald's...instead. The girls LOVED IT and I scored some aunt and mommy points.





I checked Reilly out of school during her lunch hour so she could participate in the fun that is McDonald's playland. The last time I was at this particular McDonalds was for church playgroup when Reilly was five. Reilly loved it and Kameron hated it. Reilly would play and throw a fit to go home and Kameron would sit and howl. Eventually we stopped going. I don't think I have even taken Ailey once. Poor girl. Tyler said that he did break down once during a particularly long night when bookclub was at my house and he was desperate and brought all the kids there. Long story short, the little girls loved it and played for a long long time. Then it was back to our house for a "Frozen Fest" in which I did hair in Anna style and Elsa style, they dressed up to the hilt, and I fashioned capes for them both. They were busy singing and dancing until Kelley got off work. Ha ha. Hilarious.

Ailey and her friend Taryn
Saturday night was our church's General Women's Meeting and Broadcast. For the first time the young women and girls 8 years old and up were invited to attend with the women. This was a BIG DEAL especially to Ailey. She was so excited. Reilly had to work but was trying to get off early so that she could attend at least part of the meeting. Unfortunately there were technical difficulties and the broadcast at our stake center got canceled. The little girls were all so sad. Reilly had just gotten off work when it got canceled so we went and picked her up and had a fun girls night regardless. Froyo to the rescue!!


Then on Sunday I gave my talk on What is Required to Receive the Fullness of the Lord's Grace. It went shockingly well. I should be good for a couple years now, right?

And...that's a wrap!!


Monday, March 24, 2014

Birthday Bash Weekend


Elle... 5 years old!!
This weekend was full of celebrations...celebrations of all the March birthdays in our extended family. We celebrated Stacey, Kelley, and Elle's birthdays. The party weekend got kicked off with a Polka Dot Pottery Birthday Party for Elle. Lots of friends and family all met up at the mall and crafted their little hearts out. My two little girls were LOVING it!! I was loving that they get to create and all of this out of their systems at the Pottery shop and not in my kitchen. Poor kids...for having a crafty mom; they really don't get to do many crafts.


Look at that face and those mischievous eyes!



Mom, Ailey and River


Even Dads were in on the action...both Tyler and Casey were helping with all the painting.

Ailey and Bryn were so cute. They both picked little owls and painted very nicely and neatly. They picked colors that coordinated and were very serious about it all. I about died laughing when Bryn yelled, "Look Mom!! It's like Sisters Creed!!"


The painting party in full swing.


Elle was having such a great time!!


Cousins with the Birthday Girl!!



It was a great birthday party and everyone had a spectacular time...but it wasn't quite over yet!!

After all the friends left, the cousins, mommies, and grandma headed out to the nail salon for some pampering. Fresh pedicures were the perfect way to kick off spring which is actually acting fairly spring-like (a rarity here in Spokane).


Mom, Kelley, and Elle down at the very end getting her manicure.


We were loving it too! Poor Reilly missed out by having to work that day.


Stacey and River...I think Stacey's eyes are closed in bliss. 


These silly girls!! To think that I never had a professional pedicure until I was a grown woman with three children; but boy, do I love them now.


Pretty Elles-Belles and her pretty fingernails.

Then later that night Stacey, Kelley, my Mom, and I went out to dinner to celebrate Stacey and Kelley's birthdays. We ate a Casper Fry which was delicious.  It's got an hipster southern vibe going. We got to use the gift card that Sisters Creed won at the Two Women Christmas Show in December for having the most beautiful booth. Very nice. I am in southern food withdrawal here in Spokane so I completely enjoyed and savored my Shrimp and Grits.


Two more birthday girlies!!

After dinner Stacey and Kelley wanted to go to the Davenport Hotel Safari Room for cocktails and dessert. In case you are wondering... the Safari Room makes a FABULOUS cherry Italian soda which was my "cocktail" for the night. I am still thinking about it's deliciousness. I also managed to put away a mini- crème brûlée and a mini-peanut butter pie. I love their teeny tiny desserts. Very satisfying.

Happy Birthday Stacey, Kelley, and Elle. I hope that this year will be wonderful for all of you. Enjoy the last year of your 30s, Stac!! 40 is breathing down your neck....and everything you heard about 40 is, unfortunately, TRUE.

On that sad note... I will sign off to start working on my talk. I am speaking in church on Sunday...ugh. Wait until you hear my topic... just wait...it's a doozy.


I won't make you wait... I need the sympathy...and perhaps an explanation of what the heck I am supposed to talk about.

Here goes...

What is required to receive the fullness of the Lord's Grace


Huh? Are you freakin' kidding me? What happened to the days of one word topics such as tithing, forgiveness, integrity etc.

Yeah...be jealous.

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

St.Patrick's Day 2014

St. Patrick's Day 2014


Another St. Patrick's Day in the books and it was an all around good time!! The only thing that was an issue was that in trying to put together green outfits we realized that we have very little green clothing around here. Poor Ailey was so hard up that she had to wear one of my old green shrugs. Ha! But she pulled it off with great style.

The night before some intricate leprechaun traps were set. I am so over this tradition. This and the tooth fairy. Will they never end? This year our wily leprechaun only did minimal damage. Two chairs got turned over. He must be getting old and tired and blasé about the whole thing.

Bryn's trap: Her trap came with quite a long drawn out story. Rainbow Dash lures the leprechaun in because leprechauns love rainbows. (duh!) Then he is lured by the beauty of the queen polly pocket. See the crown? She has had her heart broken. See the broken heart? He will feel so sad that he will take her dancing on the green dance floor but it is a trick because the green dance floor will spin so fast that he will get dizzy and fall down and not be able to get up...thus trapping him. OR...they will fall madly in love and either fly off in that airplane, ride off on the motorcycle, or each will ride their own Rainbow Dash. The end. 



Ailey's trap: 


Ailey's had more of a violent streak to it. She wanted to lure the leprechaun to take a dip in a cool pool and then trick him into getting into the boiling hot tub and boiling to death. Hmmm. It involved a lot of little notes here and there. In the end...the only thing in Bryn's trap was a leprechaun hat and some gold candies. In Ailey's trap was a leprechaun belt and suspenders that I sewed together...yes! Sewed!...at about midnight only to have her say that leprechaun suspenders and belts were really dumb! I'll tell you what's dumb...leprechaun traps!  Ailey needs a dose of reality really fast. Perhaps after Easter will come *enlightenment*. :)

Now onto the parts of St. Patrick's Day that I do ACTUALLY like...


Green lunches for four kids

It truly amazes me how excited they get over these. They were stapled shut so that no one could peek and ruin the surprise. They were full of pure junk food garbage...and they loved them.


Then it was time for our St. Patrick's Day Dinner...


Look who found an even bigger and more obnoxious hat?


He passed his previous enormous hat down to his son and clearly his sweet Irish jig dancing skills. If only this were video!!


Ailey and Bryn (Yes! Ailey and Bryn) made this delicious rainbow fruit platter. Didn't they do a great job? We added some gold candy at the end of that rainbow. My kids were so inspired by Aunt Marissa and her amazing fruit and veggie platters while we were in Utah that they now want to make them all the time. I am all for it!! 


Our four little leprechauns!!

We had our traditional Irish dinner. It amazed me the vast quantities of boiled veggies and beer bread these kids could put away with a little malt vinegar and horseradish cream on top. Literally plates and plates. Tyler and I had a little bit of corned beef too. I make some seriously good veggies and they were a hit! I also made a fruit dip for the fruit and my Grandma's famous Green Punch. (It's summer in a glass.) Irish music blared, toasts were offered, food a plenty was eaten, Irish dancing flourished, laughs were abundant, and a good time was had by all!!


Happy St. Patrick's Day!!