Day 161: 8-21-20 (Friday)
Today was a delight of relaxation and fun! Tyler and I started off our morning with paddleboarding and kayaking. The water was glass. It was so beautiful. We paddled from the Lower lake to the lily pads, through the channel, and on to the Upper lake. Our lake is actually two lakes connected by a channel hence the name Twin Lakes.
It was warm and sunny but you could see signs of autumn. The bushes are starting to turn colors. I am 100 % not ready for autumn. I don't love it on a good year but with the one year anniversary of my mom's death rapidly approaching and no end in sight for quarantine; it sounds down right depressing. Getting outside and doing things has been the saving grace of quarantine for me. Being stuck in the house sounds horrid. Being cozy has no allure this year. We have done nothing but be cozy since mid-March.
We spent the rest of the day swimming, napping, and enjoying the water. There is nothing better than an afternoon nap at the lake.
I also picked the last of the raspberries. Sad. It's a good thing the McIntosh apple tree is producing! I've been eating an apple a day this entire week. They are delicious.
Day 162: 8-22-20 (Saturday)
Today we had so much fun! Reilly ended up coming out by herself. Of course we enjoy Hunter; but it is always nice getting her to ourselves once in a while. We spent the day boating, tubing, and swimming in Grandma's cove. They even did some synchronized swimming. LOL.
That night Reilly made her famous tuna melts for dinner. You might think, "How good could a tuna melt be?" If you have ever had Reilly's you would know. They are out of this world!! So good! We ask her to make them for us all the time. I also made my Grandma Ellersick's Peanut Butter Rice Krispy cookies which I have improved upon and perfected if I do say so myself! It was a hilarious night of laughing and hanging out with the lovely Johnson sisters!!
Day 163: 8-23-20 (Sunday)
Today was our last day at the lake. Tyler and I headed out early to paddleboard and kayak. It was another perfect day for both.
After that we did our usual deep clean and yard work: mowing and weed whacking. We got things done pretty quickly so that we could enjoy the rest of the day before we had to head home.
I found out that my family's parrot died. We got Maxwell Alexander Ferdinand the Bird (his full name) when I was eleven years old. He lived to be 37. When I was growing up every time the phone would ring or the doorbell would ring Maxwell would yell, "KRISTIN!!!!" It was hilarious. He actually had quite a large vocabulary. He could also cry like a baby and laugh like a deranged maniac. He loved to dance to music. When my parents divorced my stepdad got custody of Max. I hated it. Kirk and Jordin used to visit Max and see him a couple of times a year. He never stopped screeching "Kristin!" which I love! Maxwell's demise actually hit me and Kirk pretty hard. Our childhood is LONG over...our Mom is gone...now even our family's longest living pet is gone. I hope Mom and Maxwell are hanging out in heaven.
We swam and enjoyed the water. We pulled the boat out at dusk, got take out for dinner, and then headed home. We really enjoyed our week but it felt SO GOOD to be home! I know I say that every time but it really does!
Day 164: 8-24-20 (Monday)
Today was a crazy catch up day. Tyler helped Reilly and Hunter with a car repair situation. Hunter's truck was in the shop so Tyler picked Reilly up from work and drove her to the mechanic's where they met Hunter who had driven Reilly's car to work. They were able to get Hunter's truck repaired and Reilly and Tyler were able to have some good daddy/daughter time together.
I worked on my business, did tons of laundry, deep cleaned our house, and worked in the yard. We ended up having to drive back out to the lake to look for our lawn mower charger only to find it later at our house in Beverly's bag of all places! While we were driving we were able to video chat with Kam and the girls. Again, I LOVE technology! He is doing good! Still doing lots of service and teaching discussions over video chat.
They had a big meeting with the Mission President who told them that there will no longer be tracting even after COVID is over. This is so hard for Tyler to comprehend. His mission to North Carolina was all tracting and street contacting with the occasional member referral. Things have had to change for awhile. Tracting just isn't as effective anymore. It's kind of crazy though because 90% of Kameron's online MTC training was all about tracting! It's good that youth his age are super techy because that is most of what they will be doing! Facebook and FB Messenger have proven statistically to be very effective ways of introducing people to the gospel and teaching them. Kameron said that they are learning all kinds of ways to use social media as a missionary tool. Interesting.
Day 165: 8-25-20 (Tuesday)
Today was kind of a blur. There has been so much going on none of which I want to talk about and so many emotional landmines to maneuver through with siblings. It is relentless. My Aunt Bonnie texted me today to see if I was available to talk tonight. I was. She talked to both Tyler and I. It was much needed. I miss having a supportive family. I miss having a mom to love and nurture me. It was so comforting to talk to her about some of the hard things that are going on in my life and to feel loved and nurtured. Just to hear someone other than my own family (and Kirk's) say, "I love you!" brought tears to my eyes. I've missed that and I am grateful for it.








